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NerdyPotato · M
Is she really your friend to start with if she doesn't talk to you?
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somedude15 · 22-25, M
@NerdyPotato yeah you're right. I'm just trying not to sound tacky. How does this sound?
"Hey ***, I was talking about my plans to see the musical with another of my friends and they surprisingly had never seen it before and really wanted to come with me. They can get their own ticket at regular prices but I wanted to ask if you'd mind if they took the one we bought (and I sent you back the money) since you've already seen it before. And if you still want to go no worries, I'll just let them know that!
"Hey ***, I was talking about my plans to see the musical with another of my friends and they surprisingly had never seen it before and really wanted to come with me. They can get their own ticket at regular prices but I wanted to ask if you'd mind if they took the one we bought (and I sent you back the money) since you've already seen it before. And if you still want to go no worries, I'll just let them know that!
somedude15 · 22-25, M
@NerdyPotato I kinda lied here lol but still
NerdyPotato · M
@somedude15 I'm no communications expert, so don't blame me if it doesn't work out, but it sounds good to me. Casual, giving her a choice. 👍
REMsleep · 41-45, F
Lesson 1: Do not offer to pay for tickets or what otherwise would be a date type activity with any girl that has previously rejected you. She isn't too busy for a relationship. You didn't force her onto that dating site. She signed up because she has time to date. That was just a soft excuse to let you down gently.
She offered to pay because she doesn't want to owe you anything to keep the lines clear between you.
You state that she doesn't even talk to you soooooo she is not your friend.
Trust me you will get better results from women if you are a little less compliant.
Did she already pay for her ticket? If so I'd suck it up and go with her.
If she didn't pay for her ticket yet then I'd cancel with her. No love lost trust me you lose nothing.
She offered to pay because she doesn't want to owe you anything to keep the lines clear between you.
You state that she doesn't even talk to you soooooo she is not your friend.
Trust me you will get better results from women if you are a little less compliant.
Did she already pay for her ticket? If so I'd suck it up and go with her.
If she didn't pay for her ticket yet then I'd cancel with her. No love lost trust me you lose nothing.
somedude15 · 22-25, M
@REMsleep yes she sent me the money and I can send it back but idk if that'll be a tacky thing to do. But tbh I'm fine with never speaking to her again