I’ve been on a few first dates where I friend zoned my date.

Tbh, it’s difficult for me to become attracted to someone closer to my age. I did try a few times, but even if the conversation was engaging, I didn’t feel any chemistry. So then I’m put in that awkward situation of friend zoning them, & I feel shitty about it because they were hoping for something more.

Sometimes I think I should have at least tried a second date. I did with one guy who was four years younger than me. I went out with him twice and….nothing. I just got friend vibes. The other 3 older men only got one date.

I know how it feels when there’s chemistry, & unfortunately, it happens with younger men more often, but they don’t want the same things I do. And with the few I’ve tried to have a “relationship” with, it never worked out after a few weeks/months due to communication issues.

Dating sucks ass! 😄😂