Should I be worried that he left his boxers and socks for me to wash for him to collect next weekend?

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Yes, it’s not cool to expect wife-y-mom sh!t in a situationship. Unless you don't mind being guys’ mothers while you date them, it’s a red flag.

Mellowgirl · 31-35, F

@WhateverWorks I hear you... He's a bit of a cheeky chap... So I see it as a possible meaning to him wanting to come back again?

I dunno he's sweet he does pay for everything and he's respectful of me most of the time. Although he does say it's 2022 at times when he doesn't want to do something but then he does it anyways...

WhateverWorks · 36-40

I would say it’s the first signs of him testing to see what you’ll tolerate/go along with guised as cheeky behavior. It’s definitely something to monitor. I’d be willing to bet money that you can expect more little tests portrayed as cheeky behavior. Really though the biggest thing to keep an eye on is seeing what his reaction is if you don’t wash the clothes @Mellowgirl