Why do a lot of girls play games?

They either flake out, take ages to reply

i was told a girl who is interested wont play games

it says a lot about them and not me

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SW-User

Taking ages to reply might not be games she is playing or flaking. She might just have a busy life or day.
Instead of having generalised expectations, why not talk to her and she what her thoughts are?

2pacfan · 26-30, M

@SW-User Considering they are not busy

SW-User

@2pacfan why don't you express this to her and let her say what she needs to? She is the only one who really knows what her intentions are.

eMortal · M

Asking them directly won’t help. If they’re playing games they won’t admit. If there are not playing they’ll find you clingy and needy for asking. What I usually do is investing the same amount of energy the other person is putting into the relationship. I don’t double text. You answer after a long time, I won’t initiate the next conversation. @SW-User