Why do a lot of girls play games?

They either flake out, take ages to reply

i was told a girl who is interested wont play games

it says a lot about them and not me

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SW-User

Taking ages to reply might not be games she is playing or flaking. She might just have a busy life or day.
Instead of having generalised expectations, why not talk to her and she what her thoughts are?

2pacfan · 26-30, M

@SW-User Considering they are not busy

SW-User

@2pacfan why don't you express this to her and let her say what she needs to? She is the only one who really knows what her intentions are.

eMortal · M

Asking them directly won’t help. If they’re playing games they won’t admit. If there are not playing they’ll find you clingy and needy for asking. What I usually do is investing the same amount of energy the other person is putting into the relationship. I don’t double text. You answer after a long time, I won’t initiate the next conversation. @SW-User

TexChik · F

Women usually aren’t that easy. You can assume she is busy and likely has existing romantic interests . You have to decide if you want to keep trying to get her attention or move on.

CookieCrumbs · F

You may be right. A girl who is genuinely interested would show and say it. They don’t need to play games.

But you’re worrying too much about their response time.

CestManan · 46-50, F

I think in the dating world, men are a lot worse about games.

Now how long then is "ages"? Like an hour, several days, when the cows come home, or...?

I think though if someone is truly interested, they won't take too long to respond and they sure as hell won't flake out.

RebelFox · 36-40, F

It’s generally difficult to find anyone who won’t play games. In any context. Humans are fucked.

CestManan · 46-50, F

@RebelFox Rebel I just want to say - Even with our limited interactions, I kind of fell like you would be one of the more interesting and intelligent people on here to talk to or hang out with in real life. I just mention that here because I saw your reply and thought, "Hey, here she is now".

CrazyMusicLover · 31-35

Not everything you think is a game really is a game.

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