What does a 'dating connection' feel like ?

Lots of people want to do the 'lets meet up for a coffee and see if there is a connection'.

I haven't ever really understood that since the two relationships I've had sort of happened and then didn't and I never tried to interpret what it means to 'feel a connection' (ie. how am I supposed to 'feel' and what am I supposed to do?).

Now I am lost at sea so-to-speak with anything relating to dating I just wonder who can explain what a 'connection' is supposed to 'feel' like if the intention is to be finding a potential future romantic partner? Remember I think i'm probably aromantic so that doesn't help if I can't or don't 'switch on' to the mood signals, etc.

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SW-User

Sounds silly but you get the butterflies in your stomach feeling or you just are so intrigued you want to know everything about them

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Spumoni · 46-50, M

@SW-User That butterfly feeling, you're not wrong. Wowza!!! Been forever since I've felt that.

SW-User

@Spumoni it's a natural high

zonavar68 · 56-60, M

@SW-User I suppose you have to able to feel the right triggers and your body needs to understand what 'buttons to push' to make it happen.

Fantabulous · 46-50, F

For me it's when I just vibe with someone, conversation is engaging and I feel like we are on the same wave length - it's just easy and flows...when the date is done and I feel like I don't want to leave and just want to see them again....that starts the connection for me.

CrazyMusicLover · 31-35

I've never experienced it myself. I guess it's just a mutual interest, common ground, spotting some potential that people can build their emotional attachment on.

zonavar68 · 56-60, M

If either one or both of you doesn't 'feel it' does that mean you're doing something wrong?

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