90% of the women I talk to this happens, online or people I've met in person except in my case they don't get mad when I ghost them. If I ghost them, I never hear back from them which leads me to believe I'm steering the conversation, the entire conversation is supported by my back alone. But this is generally the reason, they have nothing to offer, nothing to add to our talks. Its like they're void of any personality. Atleast some of you can hold a conversation
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@MellyMel22 I don't think I get "try" very often. Like i said, if I stopped talking to them for a day or more, so do they. They don't usually initiate the conversation
@JestAJesterI won’t lie, there are times I don’t try w/certain people b/c I get tired of the how are you, what are you doing that repeats sometimes multiple times a day every day by the same exact people. I tend to have trouble being mean and saying go away. So if they catch the hint, I would never reach out asking if they ghosted me.. Do you think some are just shy enough that they don’t know what to say? At times I can go blank from stress and things. But I def know what it’s like to carry the conversation constantly too and get the why did you stop talking to me after 🙄
It can def feel like they’re not interested. I am close with someone though who can be that way and at times will say something like I never know what to say, so maybe it’s just some people who are kinda shy? I’m not sure. I think certain personalities connect well and others just don’t at all.
@MellyMel22 maybe a couple of sentences is too much to read. Considering most respond with things such as ok, lol, jk, idk, etc. maybe a paragraph is too much strain on their brains
@MellyMel22 the last girl I talked to was an exception. She always wanted to talk. Problem is it was almost always sexual, which I don't mind but not every single day. Didn't have much to say about anything outside of sex. She didn't work, didn't have a car or even a license. I did not ghost her, I let her down easy because she deserved to know atleast. but there was nothing there for me except sex
@JestAJesterSome women think that’s all they need to get the guy, but they don’t consider what they can end up with if that’s all that matters to them.
It’s good that you at least gave her the courtesy of the truth. There are men and women who can’t manage that with anyone.
@MellyMel22 well she, unlike most of the others, did actually try. she deserved that much. do you know how hard it is to turn down sex like that?! the temptation was overwhelming lol
@JestAJesterI get it, but you were right to do so. You would’ve ended up in a spot you prob don’t want to be in and had been “the bad guy” for realizing it too late.
