90% of the women I talk to this happens, online or people I've met in person except in my case they don't get mad when I ghost them. If I ghost them, I never hear back from them which leads me to believe I'm steering the conversation, the entire conversation is supported by my back alone. But this is generally the reason, they have nothing to offer, nothing to add to our talks. Its like they're void of any personality. Atleast some of you can hold a conversation
It's harder to relate to people online, especially now that most people don't have the patience to get to know people. Someone could be doing 10 things while chatting to you in which case they are not going to be invested in engaging with you.
@JestAJesterSome women think that’s all they need to get the guy, but they don’t consider what they can end up with if that’s all that matters to them.
It’s good that you at least gave her the courtesy of the truth. There are men and women who can’t manage that with anyone.
@MellyMel22 well she, unlike most of the others, did actually try. she deserved that much. do you know how hard it is to turn down sex like that?! the temptation was overwhelming lol
@JestAJesterI get it, but you were right to do so. You would’ve ended up in a spot you prob don’t want to be in and had been “the bad guy” for realizing it too late.
Wow indeed! You couldn’t be a little kinder in your let down. That’s a horrible way to talk to people who you are, or have dated. A simple: we are not compatible would suffice.
Give that person a medal. I feel the pain of the both sides and this doesn't even need to be about dating, just a normal friendship. I think I've been in shoes of both persons in this conversation at some point. Also, I don't believe in online dating or online relationships where two people never met in real life and never physically touched each other. No matter how much you like the person, there's only so much you could really know and sooner or later you reach the point when you realize there's no point in pushing things further if you can't meet.
@CrazyMusicLover i always push for atleast a phone conversation as early as possible then a meetup for that reason. because they never turn out how to expect them to
From what I understand about online dating: Women sign up and are immediately inundated with inquiries from interested men in the first few hours; men sign up and get an inquiry or two from bots in the first month. And guys who might be worthwhile, decent husband material are rejected for being 5'10" instead of 6' tall. That's what I hear, anyway.
The same thing just happened to me. It would take her hours to respond, and I'd get maybe three words. She didn't have a job or anything going on, so that's not the reason.
@JHNTHN i keep reminding myself of what people have told me. If she cares or is truly interested, she will make time for you. Taking a minute or two to respond is not asking for much, it really isnt
@Justenjoyit learn the hard way never ever ever post any negatives about yourself. Its alot like selling a product, if you post even one negative thing about the product no one will want to buy it
