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Online dating sucks don't you agree

90% of the women I talk to this happens, online or people I've met in person except in my case they don't get mad when I ghost them. If I ghost them, I never hear back from them which leads me to believe I'm steering the conversation, the entire conversation is supported by my back alone. But this is generally the reason, they have nothing to offer, nothing to add to our talks. Its like they're void of any personality. Atleast some of you can hold a conversation

It's harder to relate to people online, especially now that most people don't have the patience to get to know people. Someone could be doing 10 things while chatting to you in which case they are not going to be invested in engaging with you.
@JestAJester lol if that is what you get from this then okay.
@Idolovemostofyourthoughts Like now yes lol
Glassysky · 22-25, M
@JestAJester Depends on ur game tbh
I suggest u go for a girl whos simple, hot but doesnt have any other friends
MellyMel22 · F
[i][c=BF0080]Some people serious suck at communicating. The least they can do is try. [/c][/i]
MellyMel22 · F
@JestAJester [i][c=BF0080]Some women think that’s all they need to get the guy, but they don’t consider what they can end up with if that’s all that matters to them.

It’s good that you at least gave her the courtesy of the truth. There are men and women who can’t manage that with anyone. [/c][/i]
JestAJester · 26-30, M
@MellyMel22 well she, unlike most of the others, did actually try. she deserved that much. do you know how hard it is to turn down sex like that?! the temptation was overwhelming lol
MellyMel22 · F
@JestAJester [i][c=BF0080]I get it, but you were right to do so. You would’ve ended up in a spot you prob don’t want to be in and had been “the bad guy” for realizing it too late. [/c][/i]
Carissimi · 61-69, F
Wow indeed! You couldn’t be a little kinder in your let down. That’s a horrible way to talk to people who you are, or have dated. A simple: we are not compatible would suffice.
Give that person a medal. I feel the pain of the both sides and this doesn't even need to be about dating, just a normal friendship. I think I've been in shoes of both persons in this conversation at some point.
Also, I don't believe in online dating or online relationships where two people never met in real life and never physically touched each other.
No matter how much you like the person, there's only so much you could really know and sooner or later you reach the point when you realize there's no point in pushing things further if you can't meet.
JestAJester · 26-30, M
@CrazyMusicLover i always push for atleast a phone conversation as early as possible then a meetup for that reason. because they never turn out how to expect them to
Personally I cant keep up with the women wanting to chat with me
@JestAJester Just have a decent profile with interesting things on it and filled in lol
JestAJester · 26-30, M
@TheStarsareout learn the hard way never ever ever post any negatives about yourself. Its alot like selling a product, if you post even one negative thing about the product no one will want to buy it
@JestAJester also post some nice pictures and not just of yourself show what you are into
graphite · 61-69, M
From what I understand about online dating: Women sign up and are immediately inundated with inquiries from interested men in the first few hours; men sign up and get an inquiry or two from bots in the first month. And guys who might be worthwhile, decent husband material are rejected for being 5'10" instead of 6' tall. That's what I hear, anyway.
JHNTHN · 31-35, M
The same thing just happened to me. It would take her hours to respond, and I'd get maybe three words. She didn't have a job or anything going on, so that's not the reason.
JestAJester · 26-30, M
@JHNTHN i keep reminding myself of what people have told me. If she cares or is truly interested, she will make time for you. Taking a minute or two to respond is not asking for much, it really isnt
Glassysky · 22-25, M
I feel as if she didnt even read your last message and just said wow.

Its pretty ovbious if someones not interested in talking to you, best to ghost. Sometimes, they will entertain you with short replies for a purpose.
exotic · 22-25, F
Mint chocolate chip ice cream is soo nice 😍

You were saying?
JestAJester · 26-30, M
@exotic I prefer salted caramel or cookies n' cream
exotic · 22-25, F
@JestAJester strawberry is my second favorite

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