I don't know if i should ask?!

Met a guy off a dating site & we have met up a few times... he has a daughter & he does tend to go a bit quiet the weekends he has her which i totally understand... but seems the last few days he hasn't initiated the conversation when we chat... also we have met like 5 or 6 times but neither of us is flirting & neither of us has initiated any kissing etc... think i have been friend zoned... we were chatting to meet up the 14th May, something i suggested a couple of weeks ago, its eurovision & we both love it... thought it wud be a gud bonding thing... at the time he said he had plans that day but wud prefer to watch eurovision... i reminded him about it 2day & said he'll let me know 2moro.... but we are still on a friendly basis.... aa the general conversation has gone quiet unsure if i shld ask if we just friends or if there is any point in continuing as the conversation has died a bit.... or maybe just let things flow.... happy to be friends or let things flow but just wanna know where i stand....