what is it with some men?

My colleague just mentioned something which happened to her & has happened to me in the past with online dating...

Start chatting to someone, conversation is flowing...ye arrange to met & last minute they block u... no excuse of something has come up or whatever... twice it has happened when i've gone to the bar or wherever ye have agreed to meet & they just block u immediately without showing up?!

Its sooo rude & respectful....

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caccoon · 36-40

Sometimes I would cancel on people, if I got too nervous. But I would let them know beforehand.

Likely they were too afraid to say anything, so blocking is easier. And you know why? Cause dudes freak out and some of them actually get pretty shitty and vicious when you tell them you're deciding not to meet up.

WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F

@caccoon thats scary 😟

caccoon · 36-40

@WaryWitchWandering It's worse when they try to find out where you work so they can show up 😩

Small townz

WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F

@caccoon I hope you carry pepper spray or some sort of something with you

When I was working and walking to and from work, I always had my pocket knife and pepper spray in front pocket of my bag.I still carry it when out with my kids.

People can be crazy, please be careful ❤️

caccoon · 36-40

@WaryWitchWandering Thank you!! I hope you never have to use it 💙 I hope you're safe too

I walk with friends almost everywhere 💙

WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F

@caccoon smart ❤️