It is going better than you anticipated. You're really into this person.The check comes and the bill is higher than you expected. What do you do? (You invited the person on this date)
You gotta pay to play. Being invited out for dinner only to be asked to then pay for it would have me calling for an uber after I paid for my meal only.
You have to be careful who you ask out. But if you invite someone you pay regardless and then you leave and don't just ask anyone out. @scorpiolovedeep
First, choose a place you can afford. It can still be nice, but not cost a fortune. Whatever the outcome, I'd think that if someone invites another out, he should be willing to pay. See... If I invite someone out and wish to pay, I will say that right up front... but when a guy invites me, I am old fashioned and think he will pay. I also try to be careful with the cost of what I order for I do not feel right taking anyone for all their money.
If she was a gold digger and ordered the best wines and most expensive apps and entrees…I would pretend I lost my wallet…or use a credit card that you know wont go thru and play broke… Just to see her true colours