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What do you do when you meet the kids?

She has a daughter and wants me to meet her, but idk if we’re in a relationship it’s kinda strange idk I need help
NewRaven · 51-55, F
I think you should meet the kid. That would help you figure out if you want to get into a relationship or not. If you and the kid don’t get along but you’ve already developed feelings, it’s much harder to handle. Trust me on that, been there, done that.
Meggyboo · 22-25, F
@NewRaven thank you!!
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
Do it! Make sure the kid is nice and you like being around her.
Meggyboo · 22-25, F
@Keepitsimple I hope I do this woman is really sweet. Her daughters like a few years younger than me so hopefully a conversation should start itself
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
@Meggyboo I wish you luck! Hope it goes well for you 🤗
Northwest · M
If you have been dating for less than a year, you're not committed to each other, and you have not had the kids detailed discussion, then run for the hills.
Meggyboo · 22-25, F
@Northwest I’m not going to run without giving anything chance
Northwest · M
@Meggyboo What I meant is that many people involve their kids in a relationship waaaaaaaay too early. Not fair for the kids, and could cause issues.
JoeyFoxx · 51-55, M
I’m curious how long she’s been out.

If she has only recently declared that she’s gay, she could be experiencing nervous excitement and the decision to have you meet her daughter might be impulsive.

It’s good that you are putting so much thought into this.
Londonn · 36-40, M
why she wants you to do that I dont get it.. even you two are in a relationship, what will be your role in her parenting it's confuding for me
Meggyboo · 22-25, F
@Londonn we’ll I’m not exactly going to be her dad but I suppose if it did get serious I would have to meet her at one point so might as well get it out the way and save an awkwardness
Londonn · 36-40, M
@Meggyboo you dont know how cruel this sounds
Pretzel · 61-69, M
"let's wait for a bit until you and I are solidly a thing. we don't want to add me to your child's life too soon."
Meggyboo · 22-25, F
@Pretzel I suppose it could be looked at like that too
Snuffy1957 · 61-69, M
I hope you met her daughter! And the relationship is going well :)
Meggyboo · 22-25, F
@Snuffy1957 I meet her in an hour
Snuffy1957 · 61-69, M
@Meggyboo I hope you enjoy yourself!!
Take some of the kids very snack, ask her. Sound interested, be yourself.
ImRileyTheDog · 22-25, F
Be nice, sound interested, ask questions
SW-User
Take chocolate
well if you don’t talk to her about your relationship you will be confused for a while about wether you are or not. and you could meet her daughter, but if it’s moving too fast, then it’s weird.
Meggyboo · 22-25, F
@deathfairy I’m thinking maybe she wants to make sure we all get along before making anything serious. I hope so because I’ve been flirting and stuff with other girls and I’m not a girl who cheats😳I don’t feel like it’s going too quickly, I think it’s just startled me cos I’ve never dated a woman with a child before. Especially one who’s daughter could’ve been in school with me😳
that’s understandable (: then go for it and see. yeah that age gap is interesting.. makes me wonder if she will overlap that emotionally and see you as a daughter at some point. i wish you the best ^.^ @Meggyboo
Meggyboo · 22-25, F
@deathfairy thank you beautiful!!! If she sees me as a daughter then I guess you’ll be my next😉
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Meggyboo · 22-25, F
@Stereoguy I have agreed to meet her. I have an hour and a half to prepare

 
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