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Men will say all the right things to get in your underwear then say all the wrong things to break up after getting in your underwear right?

Broache73 · 46-50, F Best Comment
You don't have to give Men anything you yourself don't want to give them within reason. If you're not ready for a physical relationship with a Man then be very honest and upfront about this. If he respects you, then he can handle that accordingly and move along. You have every right to say "No" to that if that's not what you want at this point in your life. I've said "No" and it's paid more dividends for me personally and otherwise than I could've ever imagined. Be honest about yourself and who you are and you don't have these issues, I don't because I refuse and reject out of hand any Mind games whatsoever. I'M NOT GOING TO PLAY THOSE TYPE OF GAMES. Stay true to yourself and your Self Respect and you won't ever have these problems...

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We don’t think that far ahead
Adogslife · 61-69, M
Wrong.

It takes two to tango. If you’re accepting then you should be adult enough and comfortable enough to take some initiative. Don’t blame him for doing so and then basically infer he’s a snake charmer.

As far as the break up aspect, maybe you’re falling for the wrong guy. Maybe he’s immature. Maybe you just didn’t click. Who really cares? It’s better that you have your freedom and an honest answer. If it’s not meant to be, why prolong things?

Sex doesn’t always mean relationship, though it’s nice if it does. It’s also meant to be mutual, not doled out as a meritocracy. Nobody wants that.
reflectingmonkey · 51-55, M
yes. not many will admit this but I'll give it to you strait. its not always that men lie in order to get in a girl's pants, our hormones are like crack cocaine and when we're horny not only will we say we love you and act like we really care, we actually think that we do. then after the sex the hormones go down and we find ourselves feeling nothing. its for this reason that after thousands of years women had until recently understood this and waited a long time before giving herself to a man but recently women want to be all free spirited and fast to have sex, like men are, and the consequence is they just get used.
Adstar · 56-60, M
Yet woman are always attracted to these kinds of men.. No wonder they end up believing all men a @ssholes when that's the only men they ever noticed and where attracted to..
Myocite · F
Just wait till they get older & they just want to get in bed. Take advantage of it when you can. Believe me.
FreestyleArt · 31-35, M
Don't forget about the masks....men loves get into women's masks just for Nose Sex
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It's different for everyone
SinlessOnslaught · 26-30, M
@SW-User Most men are probably like that.
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@SinlessOnslaught yes that's more true than not...it either turns into a friendship or nothing if they don't
Doometernal · 26-30, M
Honestly I don't give a shit about getting in your pants
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This is true for many I would say.
patkaren1717 · 36-40, M
I buy my own Feminine Panties.
Sheer · F
Ugh, not the one's I know, tbh...
Virgo79 · 61-69, M
I usually wear my own🤔
Mona86 · C
Not all men
Carlisle · F
Only bad ones
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MethDozer · M
Iwashere2 pretty much nailed it. We just kind wing it as it goes along and that's the issue.
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@SinlessOnslaught you're not wrong

 
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