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helenS · 36-40, F
Same here with me. I'm on very good terms with (almost) all of them. We exchange mail, and I visit some of them from time to time. Always a nice excuse to visit cities like Paris or Berlin again.

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@helenS got a question, dm me
helenS · 36-40, F
@SW-User What question? Why don't you ask your question here right away please?

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@helenS do you hook up with your exes when you see them?
helenS · 36-40, F
@SW-User Usually not, no. There may be some flirting. Sometimes it happened, but as a big exception.

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@helenS did it cause friction? When I was really attracted to the ex I talked about above , I slept with her sister (no one knows). I think this saved our situation from getting worse.
helenS · 36-40, F
@SW-User I would not have sex with a guy who is in a new relationship. I really do not want to destroy other people's relationships. So - being in bed with an ex is limited to cases where the ex is single. It will always be a big exception.
I even went on vacations with some of my exes for a couple of days each.
I even went on vacations with some of my exes for a couple of days each.

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@helenS I meant when they were single

