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Spoke to a guy the other day, he was smart, funny and interesting.

Only problem was that he was really distracted by the "ripped" and attractive guys online who he says, "get all the attention from women". So distracted in fact, that he couldn't seem to believe I was actually interested in him. I realise that a lot of people who are looking for love are so focused on what others have, that they miss opportunities that are right in front of their noses.

In the end I decided not to go on a date with him. I think people at the very least need to be ok with themselves before trying to be with someone else. It's kinda scary just how many don't even like themselves very much, but they are out there asking others to fall in love with them. 😐💔
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ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
It's amazing how people stereotype others in terms of what they find attractive, just assuming there is one or two perfected images and that's all that one might be interested in. Myself I'm not attracted to ripped guys physically. Did he even bother to ask what you like?
KuroNeko · 41-45, F
@ravenwind43 The irony is he showed me pics of the guys he was jealous of, and I didn't find any of them attractive. They just looked like arrogant posers.
KuroNeko · 41-45, F
@ravenwind43 I was very clear about what I liked. I like personality, humour, intelligent conversation. They just never believe me.
ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
@KuroNeko I understand that! Sigh....