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Spoke to a guy the other day, he was smart, funny and interesting.

Only problem was that he was really distracted by the "ripped" and attractive guys online who he says, "get all the attention from women". So distracted in fact, that he couldn't seem to believe I was actually interested in him. I realise that a lot of people who are looking for love are so focused on what others have, that they miss opportunities that are right in front of their noses.

In the end I decided not to go on a date with him. I think people at the very least need to be ok with themselves before trying to be with someone else. It's kinda scary just how many don't even like themselves very much, but they are out there asking others to fall in love with them. 馃槓馃挃
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SimplyAPerson22-25, F
Good choice in my opinion. Bitterness is unattractive
KuroNeko41-45, F
@SimplyAPerson It's hard to get through to anyone like that. They already believe that you couldn't be interested.
SimplyAPerson22-25, F
@KuroNeko Totally.
There鈥檚 a difference between having low self-esteem and showing it to strangers. Something about this guy screams I need someone to make me feel good about myself.
KuroNeko41-45, F
@SimplyAPerson So many are looking for someone to fix them. If you aren't happy on your own then you are just gonna transfer that onto someone else when they also fail to make you happy. This stuff needs to be taught in schools, I swear.
SimplyAPerson22-25, F
@KuroNeko I think it has more to do with people鈥檚 upbringing and surrounding environment. I find that people like that haven鈥檛 been cared about as much as they needed as children. They may know rationally that their approach to relationships is unhealthy, but they find it difficult to tolerate the emotional stress of being alone