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Spoke to a guy the other day, he was smart, funny and interesting.

Only problem was that he was really distracted by the "ripped" and attractive guys online who he says, "get all the attention from women". So distracted in fact, that he couldn't seem to believe I was actually interested in him. I realise that a lot of people who are looking for love are so focused on what others have, that they miss opportunities that are right in front of their noses.

In the end I decided not to go on a date with him. I think people at the very least need to be ok with themselves before trying to be with someone else. It's kinda scary just how many don't even like themselves very much, but they are out there asking others to fall in love with them. 馃槓馃挃
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REMsleep41-45, F
True. You dogged a bullet but sadly he will probably think that you dumped him looked for a hotter guy.
At our age its really unattractive to be so not self aware.
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KuroNeko41-45, F
@REMsleep That's the sad thing, he wished me luck in finding someone more suitable. He will definitely put it down to not being attractive enough. Attractive to me is more than just what someone looks like, it's who they are and how they choose to deal with what life throws at them.