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Spoke to a guy the other day, he was smart, funny and interesting.

Only problem was that he was really distracted by the "ripped" and attractive guys online who he says, "get all the attention from women". So distracted in fact, that he couldn't seem to believe I was actually interested in him. I realise that a lot of people who are looking for love are so focused on what others have, that they miss opportunities that are right in front of their noses.

In the end I decided not to go on a date with him. I think people at the very least need to be ok with themselves before trying to be with someone else. It's kinda scary just how many don't even like themselves very much, but they are out there asking others to fall in love with them. 馃槓馃挃
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ServantOfTheGoddess61-69, M
The imagery of porn, advertising, and filtered photos on dating sights messes with people's self-images and distorts their sense of what relationships are all about.

Maybe it would be worth giving this guy a chance, but I respect your choice.
KuroNeko41-45, F
@ServantOfTheGoddess I told him how ironic the conversation was, plus on top of that he had made a post about how he never gets any attention, WHILE we were talking! Sorry but it's just not a rabbit hole I wanna go down. I have had my life wrecked by insecure guys quite enough.
CrazyMusicLover31-35
@KuroNeko That was very disrespectful, imo. He sounds like a teenage girl posting "nobody wants me" on her Facebook page while ignoring everyone who tries to reach her because what she really means is "I get no attention from the one specific person I want to notice me."