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Eyesropen · 61-69, C
You don’t need to be any particular size for people to be interested in you as a date....
Eyesropen · 61-69, C
Maybe, “ I am Enough”@Elizabeth28
@Eyesropen if some one cant accept some one else for size height weight salery or ect dont date em period the right person will come along
Eyesropen · 61-69, C
Yes! Better wait for a good person than try for shallow idiots....

tallpowerhouseblonde · 31-35, F
Zero is not a size and can be unhealthy.It's definitely not a requirement to getting asked on a date.To get dates you can flirt,be approachable and hold intelligent conversations.Be confident about yourself.Men will come to you.
ozgirl512 · 26-30, F
@tallpowerhouseblonde quantitative easing I think is the technical term... Makes it sound legit
tallpowerhouseblonde · 31-35, F
@ozgirl512 I think governments issue bonds too.
ozgirl512 · 26-30, F
@tallpowerhouseblonde true... That's one way of creating money... It's a fascinating subject
Annalea · 31-35, F
You’re seriously annoying. You’re not getting dates because your attitude sucks. Stop feeling bad for yourself. If you don’t like your body, change it. But if you don’t love yourself, the honest truth is no one else will either. No matter what size.
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@Annalea and you called me annoying right off the get go. I get it I'm not as wonderful as you
SoulAsylum · 31-35, M
@Annalea well people can love someone who doesn't love themselves but the person will never believe anyone can love them till they love themselves.
Annalea · 31-35, F
I never once said I’m wonderful. You’re wishing eating disorders on yourself. You think being a size zero will make you happy. That is annoying to me. You need a reality check otherwise you’re going to end up starving to death or spending your entire life miserable. That is my opinion. You posted for people’s opinions. If it’s not helpful to you then move on. Or just keep doing what you’re doing, but from someone who’s been there... it doesn’t get you very far.
Doomflower · 36-40, M
Size 0 is pretty small. I am a size 4-6 now and don't seem to have any problems with getting male attention.

And really ... other people are the last reason one ought to change their body!! What do YOU want to look like?

When I told people I wanted a muscular build like Sarah Conner in Terminator 2 they said it would be too bulky. Then just the other day BF told me I am getting the build and it looks good on me! SEE!? What if I had listened when he said it might be too much muscle? I wouldn't he happy and he wouldn't know that he likes buff chicks.

What size are you now? PM me if you wanna talk. I am obsessed with weight loss and fitness.
Doomflower · 36-40, M
@IAmNothing that sucks! You don't have to be stuck there though. It can be done and in a way that doesn't hurt you. :-)
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@Doomflower I just want it fast
Doomflower · 36-40, M
@IAmNothing a year is lightening speed to lose that much weight. You will probably have loose skin too. I just wrote a long entry earlier about how my body image isn't perfect even though I am within my goal weight range.

I suggest doing a thing a week. I started with cutting out sodas and fruit drinks and switching to water. It's a good first step.
I’m a size zero and don’t get dates 😐
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@Stark well you at least have better chances than I do
@IAmNothing 😂 you can never win with you it’s hilarious
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@Stark Buddy. Someone like you has far better chances than I ever will.
My wife has always been a big girl, 6 feet and over 300 pounds, and if she wasn't in a relationship, it was because she didn't want to be. You just have to connect with guys who like big girls. We are out there.
iamnikki · 31-35, F
Unless you are 4 feet tall, why are you aspiring to be a size zero?🤔 I'm sure you are worthy of a date at your current size😉
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@iamnikki At my current size ha that's hilarious. I'm well over 4 feet tall.
SoulAsylum · 31-35, M
You can get them without being a size 0 hell most of the female population isn't a 0.
Doomflower · 36-40, M
@SoulAsylum true! The average American woman is a size 16.
TheotherAndy · 41-45, M
Size shouldn’t matter! If it does, you’re trying to date the wrong people.
Allelse · 36-40, M
Nah you need big fake tits.
Doomflower · 36-40, M
@Allelse I would be happy with a B
Doomflower · 36-40, M
@SoulAsylum I know but I liked having boobs.
SoulAsylum · 31-35, M
@Doomflower yeah but you're a blue chick with purple hair that's exotic 😄
Lol
SW-User
You don't need to be a size 0 to get dates
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@SW-User well close to it
Prettybrat · 26-30, F
@IAmNothing I'm close to it and I'm not getting dates 😕
SW-User
😒 thats so stupid
SW-User
@IAmNothing yes it is

size doesnt get you dates
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@SW-User being over a certain size prevents you from getting dates
SW-User
@IAmNothing not really

its how you present yourself and come off

you need to feel beautiful and have a good attitude




if you dont love yourself then you shouldn't even be dating
you need to love yourself before trying to love someone else
SW-User
Will this pity party ever end?
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@SW-User not until I reach my goal
SW-User
@IAmNothing It won’t change anything, you’ll find something else to hate about yourself
SoulAsylum · 31-35, M
@SW-User this is true well for some of us it is @IAmNothing you should listen these people are making good points.
SW-User
Uh..people who date solely based on your appearance are embaciles.
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
Yeah but from what type of dudes? 😱
MURD3RM0NK3Y · 26-30, M
Better get to work then
satan · M
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SoulAsylum · 31-35, M
@satan the power of christ compels you *throws holy water in your eyes* 💦
romell · 51-55, M
its a misnomer
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Doomflower · 36-40, M
@IAmNothing so long as you're eating enough it's fine to do it that way. You don't have to hit the gym to lose weight but it helps. Maybe light walking? Like 2 mph on a level surface? Walk for an hour that's 200 calories and a few chapters of a book on tape.
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Doomflower · 36-40, M
@LvChris ☺️ thankees! I am resting my leg right now because I wanna go back to the gym tonight and do more juggling.

 
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