@Fernie i dont look for anyone on the internet..i live my life and whatever happens happens

@LindaM Wise Woman!

@LindaM yes my friend was with her to the end and had 20 years of nothing for himself but looking after her. Many would of put her in care.

@Northwest hello, "its complicated" is one of the most famous lines they use...i think they should set up a site for married people only and leave the single people a site for their own...i wouldnt go on a date site now if they paid me ..was there a few years ago and it was polluted with married men and all of them that contacted me just wanted sex...it was very hurtful for me because i was single and looking for a relationship.. i felt i wasnt worth anything because of the married mens approach towards me...its taken me a while to gain my strenght back because of that because i had no idea what was going on in the world between men and women after my husband and i separated..boy was i in for a shock...its very disqusting if you ask me...

@LindaM To me, complicated means that there's a bunch of hidden stuff. I am not judging, just saying that those who interact with someone, with the "complicated" profile, should expect to be talking to a married/attached person on the other end.

Their circumstances may justify it, or not. Sorry the experience soured you on online dating. However, it is not only about the men. The reason married men, just like Nigerian Princes, flood social media, is that there are takers. Demand cannot survive without a supply to match.

@Northwest i honestly doubt many single women are looking to hook up with married men but some married men are very charming and persuasive and will tell her anything to get her ...trust me, ive heard it all...

@Lostpoet wow thats terrible for your niece

@LindaM I know but I think she already new he was a creep. I really do physically have to bite my tongue when I'm anywhere near him.

@Lostpoet i can imagine...

@Mondayschild i agree

@srxwat4 if everyone agree to that theroy that would be one thing and unless you are in an open relationship, you have no business on dating sites if you are married or in a relationship...you dont have anything to offer a single person

I am not offering marriage to a single person and maybe that is not what they are looking for anyway.

@srxwat4 sometimes single people are looking for relationships and most times married people on date sites are looking for sex so i think if the could come up with a site for married people, they could all cheat on each other :)

@PhoenixPhail its a mystery to me too..

@SW-User and alot of single people are vulnerable and believe all the married peoples bs...my opinion

@Fernie yes its very sad...

@Fernie no

@Snowvixen i doubt many of them have agreements...

@badapple true...

@ReneeT no but it doesnt stop them

@LindaM You're so right. There are some who just can't see what a real commitment to someone means

@ReneeT they dont care

@JarJarBoom i agree but its happening

@LindaM of course it happens...its not surprising.

@smileylovesgaming thats a good question but i think its because they are selfish and needy and dont talk to their partners about whats bothering them so they go out and cheat

@Slinkymel are you married?

@Slinkymel lol

@lizzy96 yes it is

@ChatterinSeuss we are all different in what we want and how we see ourselves...

@LindaM Linda I am not mad or do I consider cheating to be right when you are married and love one another,,, what I see most is couples that get married and let their sex lives get ruined,, they go from sex 5 times a week to maybe 2 times a month... How many women tell a man " I ain't doing that!, that's nasty " or the infamous I have a headache..Or the other line which is the main reason men cheat,, I don't do that... and I am not saying men are angels either... men have wandering eyes and love to flirt and do things to get women upset... it is all mutual... I don't look at these women that I have sex with as evil,,, many men my own age can't keep up with my sex drive, because that is the one gift my wife did give me,,, the power to go on...

@ChatterinSeuss well i think the next time a married man approaches me, im kicking him in the balls lol...i dont want any part of their bs...if their wives cant or wont give them what they want sexaully, how is that my problem?? and why do they want me to fulfill their needs and they wont even buy me a cup of coffee...no offence and im a nice person but they can kiss my butt...lol

@SW-User already are if they are signed up on a date site..

@LindaM They shouldn't even allow marrieds to sign up. How can ya date if you're married? Ya don't, they just looking for quick hook up

@SW-User no way to control that because if they will cheat then you know they are liars...

@4meAndyou alot of dogs out there...

@SW-User oh monkeys lol

@LindaM single/unmarried people are out there dating. people on dating sites are often married/in a relationship craving a little sumthing from their side ho

@SW-User what do you call the cheater? side hodog?