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If you were on a dating app and these were the only kinds of men interested in you would you give up and delete the app?

This is very accurate in terms of what I get stuck with. I always just delete and ignore.

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MarkPaul · 26-30, M
What can you say...?
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@MarkPaul You say nothing and ignore them.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@IAmNothing What about your obligation to those guys who have gone out of their way to express an interest in you?
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@MarkPaul I just told you. I say nothing and delete their messages. Maybe if I'm in a good mood I'll say hi back and then stop responding.
SW-User
@MarkPaul She has no obligation to them. Sucks to be those guys who get ignored, but it is what it is.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@IAmNothing So, you lead them on and then dump them? It might be best for you to just stick to in-person interviews.
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@SW-User They can handle it I'm sure they're used to being ignored.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@SW-User If you choose to go on a dating app, there are obligations galore fueled by expectations.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@IAmNothing Well, they must see something in you that they like.
SW-User
@MarkPaul Expectations and obligations are 2 entirely non-related things. She is not obligated to give them her attention just like you are not obligated to give your attention to women you are not interested in. It sucks to be on the receiving end of that, but shit happens.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@SW-User Well, maybe she should put her "conditions for acceptance" in her profile.
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@MarkPaul Yeah they see "female" that's it.
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@MarkPaul Nobody really reads those.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@IAmNothing Well, maybe if you try a date with one of them, you will find that you have more in common than you thought. But, be careful. And, insist on meeting in a public place.
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@MarkPaul It's called take a fully loaded shot gun. I have no intention of meeting with anyone. I deleted everything.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@IAmNothing Yeah, but now you will spend the rest of your time wondering, what if...?
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@MarkPaul I have zero regrets ignore those guys. I sleep just fine.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@IAmNothing Well, just wait until your biological clock starts going off.
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@MarkPaul That clock never works. I don't want children.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@IAmNothing Don't you think you should talk that over with your potential mates?
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@MarkPaul I am not speaking to them.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@IAmNothing What if we set-up a moderated meeting... on camera of course. Naturally, you will be paid.
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@MarkPaul No I refuse to go on cam.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@IAmNothing Okay, audio only.
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@IAmNothing Okay... written transcript only and it will be a closed set.