Sexual Pen Pal

If you are like me (married and WFH), getting out is next to impossible. I am seeking someone who like me needs someone to talk to about the things your spouse/SO does not wish to talk about or you know you can't talk about.

Lets see if we can help each other.

I am 64 and with the exception of a few thing which we can discuss lets be that person we can tell anything to.

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swirlie · 31-35, F

[quote]is that better than using an app like grindr? Or should I go somewhere specific?[/quote]

No, don't use grindr! Don't use any dating site at all. When meeting people, it's very important to feel their energy when you get within 3 feet of them. If you speak to someone online or on an app, you cannot feel their energy through the internet. 99% of choosing to approach someone is from the energy you feel from them, not from what they say to you over the internet!

Where to go to meet guys, is anywhere that guys hangout alone. For example, the grocery store is a great spot to meet guys! I can't tell you how many guys I've befriended at the banana counter in a grocery store who are there shopping alone!

Again, it's their energy you must feel first, before you even really start talking to them. If their energy sucks or you feel very uncomfortable in their presence, then move on and don't look back.

rfhh1959 · 61-69, M

@swirlie Should I tell her afterwards if they take me home?