If you were in a serious relationship, would you mind if your significant other maintained an active profile on a dating website?

@ElRengo
You are SO closed-minded about these things!

@swirlie
I would fully respect her right to do according to her choices.
It´s fair to repect my own ones.
Is that being closed minded? Or is it standing for what I choose for the kind of relaltionship I would stay in?

@ElRengo
Why would you feel fearful if she maintained an active profile on a dating website?

@swirlie
The "fear" of staying in a relationship that is of no more value for my personal criteria, even if having a profile on a dating website is all what happens.

@ElRengo
So in other words, you want her to conform to your criteria for being in your life, otherwise she can just hit the road, right?

@swirlie
Not at all.
If those criteria were not enthusiastically shared by both sides, we wouldn´t be enough compatible as a couple.
What doesn´t mean that my criteria should be necessarily valid for others.

@ElRengo
I see. 🤔

@swirlie
I can imagine what you see..........😊