why online dating is successful for some but not for others

[c=BF6900][i]it was recommended to me that i try online dating, a while back now...so i tried my luck and joined tinder.....but it was so disheartening, as i swiped thousands of women i liked but hardly got any swipes or matches, except from fat hags, that i had no interest in....i'm a male in my mid 40s....why was i getting no luck and yet i hear about others who have had success with tinder right away?[/i][/c]

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Prisoner1972 · 51-55, MVIP

I almost gave up on online dating. I set up a profile on the site where women have to reach out to men. That's what I did. I set up a profile. And lived my life. And women would reach out to me. I'm at my fiance that way. We've been together for over 3 years. And we getting married in 4 weeks. It worked out good for me. But I was about to give up on it.

MorriganoftheNight · F

This is just an observation not meant to be mean. But the fact you have just called some women fat hags, and I realise you would not have said that to them directly, i would now be wondering as to who you might be as a person and how that is coming across in your profile and interactions.

DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F

If you're calling them fat hags, you better look like Brad Pitt.

Theyitis · 36-40, M

I’ve had similarly poor luck with online dating.

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