Found out she has a partner

So I’ve gone out with this wonderful woman a few times. Well we got dinner yesterday and it turns out she is in a long term relationship. Apparently he is aware of us, but it seems a bit concerning from my end. Any thoughts?

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MaryJo1996 · 26-30, F

I don't go out on dates or enter into relationhips so i've never been in the situation myself.

But to me this just sounds like she was having her cake and eating it, and only now has she told you because guilt has finally caught up with her.

And if she's in an open relationship, then she should have been upfront about that with you from the beginning.