Online dating is definitely brutal for most men(even more so I guess for young men). Do you agree?

I have been using dating apps like tinder, Hinge and Bumble since June or July 2022 but pretty much no matches at all on tinder and Bumble and only 16 matches on Hinge so far. I am 22 now and kept my filter as 18-26 on them so 3-4 years in both directions. Last month, I did get some matches on Hinge. First was a 19 year old and her replies were slow but she did reply to me but after I asked her out, she unmatched me. Then got matched by a 22 year old who completely stopped replying after matching. Then got matched by an 18 almost 19 year old girl with whom I had a decent convo but her replies were all 1-3 words and then got unmatched by her. Then got matched by a 20 year old who too ghosted me the same way like the 22 year old did. Then didn’t get a single match for weeks and today finally got a match today on Hinge. She is also 18 almost 19 but she only replied once and isn't replying further anymore and she eventually unmatched me too. Isnt it brutal? Why match if she was gonna unmatch?