Did someone just ask for your digits ?

I am immediately suspicious if a 'woman' I'm communicating with offers a phone number to shift conversation off the particular dating site quickly. I mean if I could actually get over my social anxiety and approach women I would hardly expect to be given the person's phone number the first time we met.

If a person tries to ask for money or any other sort of info that might constitute a form of ID - that's instant scammer alert.