I try, I fail

I've tried several of these dating app/website things now, and never get anything beyond outright rejection. I get that I'm probably ugly and/or give off "creep" vibes, so I might just stop trying. It's not like anyone would notice my absence anyway XD

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RebelHeart · 36-40, F

Do you use the same profile pic on the dating site? If so... thats pretty terrifying to a woman whos looking for someone to date. meant in the nicest way 🙂

KiwiDan · 31-35, M

@RebelHeart No, I have a different one. I guess my face is just terrifying :(

RebelHeart · 36-40, F

@KiwiDan i mean.... I'm certainly not an expert but ive helped a few guy friends out with things like this. I often find that its a bit like a 'lost in translation' thing but instead of being different laguages spoken, its just a male - female thing. Being female i find I'm often able to shed light on how your profile comes accross to women and interpret what women say with what they really mean.
Always happy to lend some advice if your at the point where you want to give up trying and want to try something different :)

KiwiDan · 31-35, M

@RebelHeart That would be very helpful :)

RebelHeart · 36-40, F

@KiwiDan awesome. I'll message you :)