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Greeting me with “How” ✋ doesn’t offend me

Saying “how” with your hand up as a so-called Native American greeting? Me and other indigenous people I know do that with each other all the time as a joke. Even if someone who isn’t indigenous does that with us, we don’t find it offensive because we just assume they’re joking. But if they’re being serious, then we do find it offensive, because it’s incredibly ignorant for them to think that’s a legit Native American greeting and we should be well past that. Luckily, that’s never happened with me personally. Ever. But I’m sure there are still plenty of people like that around these days. Mainly older generations or those who just weren’t raised right to keep up with the times. I just hope that’s a sign that most people are being properly educated on what’s legit offensive and what isn’t.
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Adstar · 56-60, M
This is the first time anyone has revealed this How thing to me and i am 56 years old... No having ever met a native of north America i have never had the opportunity to offer any greeting to one in my life.. But even if i did use the "how" greeting seriously .. My intent would be an attempt to NOT Offend the person.. It would not be based on any Arrogance but simply on the only information i have ever received.. And if the said native American reacted with anger and offense at my "How" then i would be VERY angry at them for inflicting that injustice upon me.. and it would be an injustice for sure because my intent would never have been to offend the native American..

After such a unjust experience with a native American ( the first experience i would had had with a native American ) i would avoid all further contact with native Americans and would have a very negative opinion of them..

Inflecting injustices upon good intentioned people who have made an honest mistake will not advance good relations between peoples.. It will only work to build division and resentment and hate between peoples..