dry texts from woman = disinterest, ..right?

or is she just not much of a texter?

irl its kindov obvious she likes me. or at least used to...idk anymore

i dont see her daily anymore due to change of cicumstances but i have her number and started texting her but she sends very dry texts. i didnt like her immediately after meeting her (it was obvious she liked me) but ive been thinking about her a lot lately, and i try to talk to her (via text) but her dry texts make me think shes moved on... do i also let it go now or....

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496sbc · 36-40, M

How dry are her txt.

thrash · 31-35, M

@496sbc enough to let me know she don't have time to message me

but she also explicitly states that i should msg her..

496sbc · 36-40, M

@thrash ohh she is messing with u

thrash · 31-35, M

@496sbc it's confusing cause irl she's very clearly borderline obsessed with me

i thought she'd be happy to msg me- she went through a lot of trouble to hint that she needs my number

sigh, women.....

496sbc · 36-40, M

@thrash bro tslk to her about it. Flat out ask her.

thrash · 31-35, M

@496sbc i did, she said she's going through some things

i asked her if she wants to talk about it

that was two days ago

i get the feeling that she mightve been wanting to see me irl (i told her I'll take her out if shes ever feeling down once) but my schedule has been sooo fucked all of last month and next month as well ...but that feeling could be unfounded optimism on my part ... probably best to let it be

496sbc · 36-40, M

@thrash so u have not met her yet then. Yeah its gona be tough. Keep at it give her space. Maybe even let her msg u. At the same time the dry txting msy be her way of communication so. That may just be her bro

thrash · 31-35, M

@496sbc i used to see her every day. i just haven't seen her in a month.

but yeah, I'm guessing it is, too. idk why i thought otherwise....

496sbc · 36-40, M

@thrash welp maybe she is bipolar

thrash · 31-35, M

@496sbc i mean, since were on the topic - i did make her feel rejected when she first met me... i already liked someone else at the time, and it showed... i ignored virtually all her signals and advances... but in my defence- i can only like one person at a time... so anyway, things happened and i stopped liking the other person. and so naturally, after hanging out with her every day (doesnt hurt that shes gorgeous), i started liking her ....the thing is i know she loves me. yes, love. i have felt it. but maybe i hurt her ego in early stages, and theres no coming back from that 😐 ah well

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thrash · 31-35, M

@496sbc in my defence, if she - as great as she is - could just sweep me off my feet upon meeting me then what's to say someone else can't do that also ... my feelings would be almost worthless. but yeah

it's been nice venting lol.

496sbc · 36-40, M

@thrash ik man. Since i never got to have a gf i really dont know