Honey, you deserve a break and even more. Enough is enough, don't you think? I agree and I think you feel that way too. I think you're living with a narcissist and that is totally draining. You don't deserve that. I think it may be time to get out. I hate to say that but if you don't, it will start to ruin your health and it probably already has. This guy is totally controlling. For your own sake, I think it's time for you to leave your abuser. There is no relationship there. If he has to keep lying about everything and then blaming you for everything, there's no relationship to salvage. It's not the way a man should treat his wife. You need to get away from him for good. I usually wouldn't say that but when it comes to losing your health, yes you need to get away for good. Where there's no trust or communication that is healthy, there's no relationship. There's no reason to allow him to continue to abuse you. Things are not going to change. With narcissists, they only get worse. Please love yourself enough to get away. And don't ever let him know where you're at. What do you say to all this? Will you do it? And yes, God definitely does know you tried. I went through the same thing, but I got out. It's imperative that you do, too. I am praying for you and if you need to talk or need any type of advice, I'm here. You can always PM me. Don't walk away....RUN! And never tell him your plans or fight with him again. He won't hear you. He's only interested in his own selfish desires. The minute you tell him what you're going to do is the minute you're going to have a battle on your hands you can't handle. So plan carefully.
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