My fiancé is leaving soon for boot camp. What should I expect?

My fiancé is leaving soon for the navy. He’s going for nuclear engineering. What should I expect? I’ve never been in a relationship like this before. We’ve been together for 2 years already. He’s my best friend and we’ve never been apart from each other. We’re getting married after boot camp. I’m really nervous.

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GerOttman · 61-69, M

As soon as you get an address from him start writing a little note each day. Even just a postcard. He'll look forward to them like you can't imagine. Don't worry too much about him missing you or feeling lonely, he will of course but boot camp is very specifically set up to keep him busy and tired! I'm not sure how long Navy boot is 8 to 10 weeks probably. They will fly by for him, it will take a bit longer for you. And yes! He will be different when it's all said and done, try not to be too shocked, it's a good thing usually! Best of luck to both of you, it matters!