Do you think you'll ever love again as deeply as your first?

Because y'know how your guard goes up afterwards & you never fully allow yourself to be that vulnerable again.

Or maybe you simply lose that "the one you love can do no wrong" type of endearment. Because anybody can do wrong, it's just facts. So you look at everybody with that thought like "so what wrongs are [i]you[/i] into" 🤔

Like I could see myself loving again but I don't really see myself giving anybody my whole self again. I'm all mine from now on.

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Randie · 61-69, T

I didn't think so and was devastated. Eventually I met my wife and married her after two years. That was 38 years ago and we are still going.

What people do not realize is that every relationship no mater if it's friends, business or lovers is a series of compromises. I you dont both compromise at times it will never work.

I am with the love of my life but we have had some trying times but have always worked it .

ChiefWalksWith40oz · 26-30

@Randie yeah I tend to say I don't really believe in soul mates & shit like that anymore, it's just about whoever you make shit work with. Some people can work easier together than others it just depends. Not everyone likes when I say that though 😂
I'm glad you found someone though