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Do you think you'll ever love again as deeply as your first?

Because y'know how your guard goes up afterwards & you never fully allow yourself to be that vulnerable again.

Or maybe you simply lose that "the one you love can do no wrong" type of endearment. Because anybody can do wrong, it's just facts. So you look at everybody with that thought like "so what wrongs are [i]you[/i] into" 馃

Like I could see myself loving again but I don't really see myself giving anybody my whole self again. I'm all mine from now on.
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caccoon36-40
It's good to care about yourself first.

I've found as I get older, I'm learning more about what love is, what is fair, how to draw boundaries etc.

I don't love as freely and easily, but when I do start to feel it, it's just as intense, or even moreso than the first
ChiefWalksWith40oz26-30
@caccoon that's a good way to look at it. I wish it came that naturally to me lol. I feel like I keep myself at a distance on purpose or something & I don't let myself have real feelings anymore.

It's a wild game out here
caccoon36-40
@ChiefWalksWith40oz I understand, I'm kind of the same. It's hard for me to open up to people now, I'm pretty dismissive of love, or maybe scared of it.

Just do what's best for you for now 馃槉 it's a long life and we grow and change at our own pace
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