It is possible that my husbands business is going out of business. And it's not going to be...

My Son is going through something similar.

In fact, he let me run his store because hes checked out.

If you haven’t already, find ways to remind him he’s not failing, business is.

Also, my dad. Did this, in a way, when he was a body man. He never charged enough and didnt feel right charging more. It ruined him eventually and not for a. Lack of trying!!

Boeing · 36-40

I am just in the very beginning, so I do not have any advice, but an observation:
Opening a business is like getting myself into a Current, that runs with a different speed than regular, normal, everyday life. And I am learning to not be afraid of it, although it is very scary, especially for someone like me, a bubble bee, an artist.

But then I find it interesting and challenging, the days that I do have the right energy and attitude.

As ironic as this might be, he might need to work less - yes, he might need to take a vacation, a couple of days to do something fun, and then to return ?

Excuse me if I come across as inconsiderate and perhaps too youthful - I can see that - but I am answering from the place where I am and where I see things. It is horrifying, but perhaps it is a calling ?
To approach things in a slightly different way. Sometimes it is a small change ?
I wish all the best.

EldritchFox

Communication is always going to help. Showing him support. Sending some positivity your way. It sounds tricky but I'm always rooting for the good guys.

Mamapolo2016 · F

No pity, that’s true. But I think the only way to help is to sit down and lovingly explain you know the business is in trouble and you want to help in every way you can. Most people fear most the “telling the family part.”

Say it or write it. But make sure he knows you’re there, no judgements. If the business goes, together you’ll find a new way.

Raleighmom · 46-50, F

He may do well with a business coach - Try Dave Ramsey Summit and Entreleadership. They are awesome!!!

HikingMan · 56-60, M

Came back, read some inconsiderate comments and decided to chime in again.

Look, losing customers is not the same as losing the business. Especially when those customers are people who are waiting for you to arrive and go in another direction instead of waiting on you. Definitely not something to worry about in my opinion.

Once the schedule lightens he’ll book new clients and be none the worse for wear.

His mood is probably because he takes so much pride in it and he hates having to feel like he let those people down somehow.

In the end I think you should just talk to him and let him know that whatever happens you and he can and will create better tomorrow’s together.

Be well.

fun4us2b · M

Is there a way for him to sell the business to a larger competitor? At least so he can streamline the process and maybe even get a job out of the deal...

Iwillwait · M

Prayers to Almighty God that your Husband's Business flourishes with great profits and excess time being freed up for you both. We break all ties of the enemy from your business, your relationships and your future growth in Jesus' Name, Amen.

SethGreene531 · M

Our family is keeping you in our prayers.
I know how draining this must be.
God bless 😞

HikingMan · 56-60, M

Just be sure not to pity him at all. He doesn’t sound like the type to take that well.

As for hope, just mix it with a little faith that he will come through for both of you. Just like he has in the past.

I wish the both of you much luck and success.

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ninalanyon · 70-79, T

I don't know what kind of business it is and perhaps this suggestion is too late but I'll give it anyway.

It sounds like the work is what he understands and enjoys not business or money side of things, so if you were able to take that part off his shoulders perhaps it could be made to work.

whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M

Good luck to you both. These are not the best of times, so be careful if looking at desperate measures. They may mean a deeper hole to dig yourselves out of. And the recovery is a long way off.😷

tenente · 36-40, M

small business owner here. without too much detail: what service(s) does your business provide?