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Let’s stop “ghosting” people

Let’s have enough respect for them as a human being and their time to let them know why we feel that we should stop talking to them even if that means dealing with the unwanted consequences. Ex Them berating us or feelings of guilt associated with doing something we very likely shouldn’t have been doing if it causes the feeling of guilt

Have you ever been ghosted?


Have you ever ghosted someone?
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Eddiesolds · 61-69, M
Im so ashamed of myself. I dont feel good enough. My depression kills me also. Gosh im so sorry everyone!!
DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F
@Eddiesolds no don’t be I’m not referring to people struggling with depression or mental illness 🤗 just focus on you ❤️
SW-User
@Eddiesolds Nah you don’t need to feel bad. Your true friends understand. You’re nothing but a sweetheart and most are happy every time we get to see you 🖤 take care of you 🖤
I dont ghost people in relationships. However, I do ghost companies, especially during the interview process. Especially if there are more than 2 rounds of interviews. It is just disrespectful of my time to think I am going to have more than 2 rounds of interviews so if I have another appointment I will 100% disappear.

I dont need to cancel appointments or anything. Companies dont do me that favor so I do not need to return it.
ChiefJustWalks · 26-30
Yeah I've been kinda ghosted but luckily it was times I didn't really care about them so I didn't mind 😅 if someone doesn't wanna fw me that's alright 👌 no stress here

& Yeah I've ghosted a few before too 😂 never anything serious though

I agree that people should be straight up & if there's real interest or feelings involved then yeah I'll always communicate & be honest. But if it's just a "whatever" type situationship then I tend to just treat it like "whatever" y'know 🤷 no expectations
Pfuzylogic · M
I was ghosted on kik by a popular poster here. Blocked her on kik, Vent and here and then she made a post complaining that I didn’t allow her mocking.
That has been over 5 years ago!
Alison · 22-25, F
Had both happen
Its dangerous for me to start explaining anything when Im angry, so I just walk away
I can’t help it, it’s in my nature 👻
SW-User
I have been ghosted and I have ghosted people.

I have done what you said many times. 20 years ago it was hey, thanks for your honesty. The past few years I’ve had people show up at my house after going crazy, threats, arguments and my last breakup he killed himself. I do not feel I owe anyone an explanation if they have been a fucker to me. Let them figure it out instead pulling the trigger on their ego.

And I don’t get offended when people ghost me. Their silence speaks for itself. They don’t owe me shit either.

I wouldn’t leave someone waiting on me, but I also see where people have control issues with communication these days. I have what’s in my face to deal with and so does everyone else 🖤
Xalvadora · 22-25, F
I will still ghost someone.
What they did in order for me to ghost them, it'll have to be that they either were my lover and they cheated on me with one of my family members or best friend or friends, anyone who can and will mentally destroy you and the ones you love, creeps...
I have boundaries. Everyone should have boundaries.
SW-User
Why y'all haunting people and you are still alive?
SW-User
i have been ghosted
it sucks took awhile to move on but in the end their lost
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
I have been ghosted and I have ghosted before.
empanadas · 31-35, M
I got ghosted the other day. We were talking/ dating for months. She left me on read after I woke up early to send her a good morning text. Didn't speak to me in a week. I literally found someone else the next day she left me on read. Now the person who ghosted made up a bs excuse as to why she couldn't text or even call me for a whole week. 🙄
DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F
@empanadas I’m so sorry ☹️
ChiefJustWalks · 26-30
@empanadas deez hoes for everybody tbh, don't sweat it 👌
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@empanadas but the second girl is working out right.

 
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