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I still miss him, even though he ghosted me....

did I deserve it though? 馃槥
SW-User
Most likely 馃槍
SW-User
Head to the pub , bullshit goes better with beer 馃嵑. 馃槀@Eklipse
EklipseF
@SW-User Heyyy gimme some. Sharing is caring!
SW-User
I鈥檓 not a charity , buy your own beer 馃槤. Lol. @Eklipse
If he ghosted you, let him be. No one deserves that. Move on. Go forward. There is much better ahead of you.
EklipseF
@PoetryNEmotion Ill do my best. One can only do that nothing more. Maybe it's the added stress load too stuff just overwhelms you suddenly 馃尮
@Eklipse One can ask for nothing more than to do one's best. You can do this. I know this too. You have survived hard times before and you have a 100% success rate in doing so up til now. And now continues...Take care, Kat.
EklipseF
@PoetryNEmotion Yes. Survival more than anything else. Under every circumstance. Thank you, stay safe also 馃尮
CoppercoilM
Maybe he is really depressed.
CoppercoilM
@Eklipse i hope they contact you. 馃尮
EklipseF
@Coppercoil More for peace of mind....at least that right? 馃尮馃槥
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Japrost41-45, M
Probably
Japrost41-45, M
@Eklipse no that stinks
EklipseF
@Japrost stop complaining or the guards will duct tape you also.
Japrost41-45, M
@Eklipse 馃樂
OntheroadM
Nobody deserves to be ghosted. It's better to be honest than to ghost someone.
EklipseF
@Ontheroad I feel so too. Unfortunately it's not always clear
SW-User
:( being ghosted doesn't mean you aren't allowed to miss them it's natural
EklipseF
@SW-User I don't understand it. Guess the bond was greater but I'll soon cut it off.
[c=4C0073]No, a person as special as you does not deserve such treatment, never ever 馃槝[/c]
EklipseF
@NiightOwl Just happens unfortunately 馃尮
sasanack61-69, M
it never surprises me the amount of time women dedicate to trying to solve the unknown ,no matter how many dead ends the battle is on. Men grieve deeply but we do fin d it easier to let go ,start again. for the most part we except it just did nt workout but the ladies will chew on that bone like a yappy dog. they also never seem to realise that the partner who broke her world will become part of her life for the rest of hers.
antonioioio61-69, M
Either way you just have to get on with it 鉂わ笍
EklipseF
@antonioioio eventually
antonioioio61-69, M
@Eklipse Yes, it does take time 鉂わ笍
mrh1972MVIP
No, you didnt. 4 years ago i told someone how i felt. Ghosted ever since
EklipseF
@mrh1972 Sorry it happened go you
Rokasu36-40, M
He musta learned from me.
EklipseF
@Rokasu I need a special box for these kinds of ghosts to trap them 馃槕
Rokasu36-40, M
@Eklipse I would say to catch a ghost you must first think like one but I feel like lotta women online are already professionals.
EklipseF
@Rokasu If I was good enough he'd have stayed. I'd like an explanation before tho. Usually I always give one that chance.
Pretzel61-69, M
nope
you deserve happiness
EklipseF
@Pretzel Ideally 馃様
VampireOfDesire22-25, M
Pitchfork
EklipseF
vetguy199151-55, M
No you didn't
EklipseF
@vetguy1991 I'm not guilty. I tried my best maybe I should let it be.
Nope you鈥檙e awesome
travelguy0141-45, M
His ghosting you shows how little he must have really cared about you or your feelings in the first place. At least now you get to see the truth. You deserve much much better.

Take some time to collect your thoughts and get yourself back to center, be grateful for being shown the truth before you got in any deeper, and move on.
travelguy0141-45, M
@Eklipse Time heals wounds. You definitely deserve better. 馃尮

I also got shown the not so nice truth recently, leading to the end of my relationship as well. It was not completely expected, but the signs were there. Overall I am better without it in my life. It wasn鈥檛 right for me.
EklipseF
@travelguy01 It's painful at first I get that but if it wasn't working for you then better apart than constantly under fire and stress.

Stay safe 馃尮
travelguy0141-45, M
@Eklipse Definitely so.
You stay safe too. 馃尮
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Pretzel61-69, M
iamonfire69641-45, F
It really sucks to be ghosted. It鈥檚 like a special kind of pain because you wonder what went wrong.

I am sorry it happened to you.
EklipseF
@iamonfire696 The other option is to move ahead and treat it as past but I can't yet. Still stings.

Hope you're well beautiful 馃尮
iamonfire69641-45, F
@Eklipse you are right 馃挅
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EklipseF
@Darksideinthenight2 This time around I believe you're right. At the same time I feel I've endured more than enough. I dunno whatever went wrong. I just know it broke everything.
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