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I still miss him, even though he ghosted me....

did I deserve it though? 😞
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SW-User
Most likely 😌
SW-User
Head to the pub , bullshit goes better with beer 🍺. 😂@Rilyn
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@SW-User Heyyy gimme some. Sharing is caring!
SW-User
I’m not a charity , buy your own beer 😝. Lol. @Rilyn
If he ghosted you, let him be. No one deserves that. Move on. Go forward. There is much better ahead of you.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@PoetryNEmotion Ill do my best. One can only do that nothing more. Maybe it's the added stress load too stuff just overwhelms you suddenly 🌹
@Rilyn One can ask for nothing more than to do one's best. You can do this. I know this too. You have survived hard times before and you have a 100% success rate in doing so up til now. And now continues...Take care, Kat.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@PoetryNEmotion Yes. Survival more than anything else. Under every circumstance. Thank you, stay safe also 🌹
Japrost · 41-45, M
Japrost · 41-45, M
@Rilyn no that stinks
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Japrost stop complaining or the guards will duct tape you also.
Japrost · 41-45, M
@Rilyn 😷
Ontheroad · M
Nobody deserves to be ghosted. It's better to be honest than to ghost someone.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Ontheroad I feel so too. Unfortunately it's not always clear
antonioioio · 70-79, M
Either way you just have to get on with it ❤️
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@antonioioio eventually
antonioioio · 70-79, M
@Rilyn Yes, it does take time ❤️
Rokasu · 36-40, M
He musta learned from me.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Rokasu I need a special box for these kinds of ghosts to trap them 😑
Rokasu · 36-40, M
@Rilyn I would say to catch a ghost you must first think like one but I feel like lotta women online are already professionals.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Rokasu If I was good enough he'd have stayed. I'd like an explanation before tho. Usually I always give one that chance.
SW-User
:( being ghosted doesn't mean you aren't allowed to miss them it's natural
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@SW-User I don't understand it. Guess the bond was greater but I'll soon cut it off.
Coppercoil · M
Maybe he is really depressed.
Coppercoil · M
@Rilyn i hope they contact you. 🌹
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Coppercoil More for peace of mind....at least that right? 🌹😞
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mrh1972 · MVIP
No, you didnt. 4 years ago i told someone how i felt. Ghosted ever since
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@mrh1972 Sorry it happened go you
vetguy1991 · 51-55, M
No you didn't
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@vetguy1991 I'm not guilty. I tried my best maybe I should let it be.
Pretzel · 70-79, M
nope
you deserve happiness
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Pretzel Ideally 😔
Nope you’re awesome
VampireOfDesire · 26-30, M
Rilyn · 31-35, F
sasanack · 61-69, M
it never surprises me the amount of time women dedicate to trying to solve the unknown ,no matter how many dead ends the battle is on. Men grieve deeply but we do fin d it easier to let go ,start again. for the most part we except it just did nt workout but the ladies will chew on that bone like a yappy dog. they also never seem to realise that the partner who broke her world will become part of her life for the rest of hers.
No, a person as special as you does not deserve such treatment, never ever 😘
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@nightowl99 Just happens unfortunately 🌹
SW-User
Pretzel · 70-79, M
SW-User
His ghosting you shows how little he must have really cared about you or your feelings in the first place. At least now you get to see the truth. You deserve much much better.

Take some time to collect your thoughts and get yourself back to center, be grateful for being shown the truth before you got in any deeper, and move on.
SW-User
@Rilyn Time heals wounds. You definitely deserve better. 🌹

I also got shown the not so nice truth recently, leading to the end of my relationship as well. It was not completely expected, but the signs were there. Overall I am better without it in my life. It wasn’t right for me.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@SW-User It's painful at first I get that but if it wasn't working for you then better apart than constantly under fire and stress.

Stay safe 🌹
SW-User
@Rilyn Definitely so.
You stay safe too. 🌹
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
It really sucks to be ghosted. It’s like a special kind of pain because you wonder what went wrong.

I am sorry it happened to you.
Rilyn · 31-35, F
@iamonfire696 The other option is to move ahead and treat it as past but I can't yet. Still stings.

Hope you're well beautiful 🌹
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@Rilyn you are right 💖
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Rilyn · 31-35, F
@Darksideinthenight2 This time around I believe you're right. At the same time I feel I've endured more than enough. I dunno whatever went wrong. I just know it broke everything.
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