Meanwhile good dominants will empower their submissives to grow to a higher being and be a better self.
Right. It's called adult and child trafficing and slavery. A real better self, huh? None of us were ever made to be slaves to anyone. And those that do have lost themselves completely.
@LadyGrace not at all lol. I've been with this one man whom I was friends with for 12 years then we became a couple and 2 years after we became a couple we entered the lifestyle. Being kinky has fuck all to do with trafficking .
@LadyGrace it's in mockery of religious masochistic behavior absolutely. And I cuss 🤷. Not sorry. Especially when you try to say a community you clearly know nothing about is trafficking....
@chickiegirl95 Well it's really about you posting/mocking something you clearly know nothing about. And btw, I never said what you were doing was human trafficking. And what you're doing is better defined as masochistic behavior. Nothing whatsoever to do with religion. Get your facts straight before you post.
@LadyGrace I grew up as a pastors kids best friend in the Methodist Church.... I grew up in the church.... I have read the Bible cover to cover more than once. I gave up on religion when I experienced the hate and toxic behavior towards women when they are in the church. I gave up after hearing there should be public execution for being lgbtqia.... I gave up when scripture was twisted in such ways that made Christians the dangerous people. So yes I know plenty about woman being told to sit and shut up. Woman being beaten by their husbands. Woman being belittled and brainwashed into sex when they aren't interested because their sole purpose is to service their husband.
Sounds like you went to the wrong church. I'm sorry about that. We don't have that in our church. You'll find that only in the cultist churches. Not all churches are the same nor fit in that category. Sounds like you may have been part of that, which is totally wrong. I'm so sorry you suffered that. That certainly is abusive. True Believers and followers of Christ don't act that way nor follow that way. I'm not for religion either, because religion is nothing but man-made philosophy. Religion didn't die on the cross for our sins. Jesus did. That makes it a relationship, not some religion. Religion has nothing to do with salvation. Jesus didn't just die for some certain groups. He died for all.
I'm not saying you, but I am saying that there are many people that read the Bible cover to cover, but that doesn't mean they know what's in it, or they're saved. Some just have it for decoration on a coffee table or read it to say they read it, but they don't know the contents of it.
@LadyGrace honestly the most accepting churches I have found were the Presbyterian churches. I moved around in high school and went to churches in multiple states and none of them were better. Unfortunately there are extremists in every single group of people I mean even lgbtq has extremists that are absolutely insane and so do Christians. But it seems like far more of the majority of the churches that I've ever been involved with have wanted those things.
@chickiegirl95 That has not been my experience at all, in all the years I have gone to the churches. But like you said, there's always some in every group of people. I like my church because we accept everyone that comes. We don't feel like we're better than anybody else or smarter nor more favored than anyone else. The church is for sinners, not those that are so prideful they think they are too good for people. Everyone is welcome at our church and they do come. No one is kicked out. The gospel is for everyone in the whole world, not just for some. It is God's hope that we love everyone. Jesus said not to forbid anyone to come to his house or to him. I'm really sorry you suffered all those things. No wonder you feel the way you do. And you know there's some churches that will kick you out if you don't believe their way and that's not good.
@chickiegirl95 That makes me cry. That is so sad. I've said it before and I'll say it again. God loves everyone, no matter who they are or what they have done. His love is unconditional. There's always room at the cross for one more. He loves you just as much as he loves me. ❤️🤗
@chickiegirl95 The cultist church abandoned you. Not God. He would never abandon you and his love for you is eternal. Please don't turn him away nor think badly of him. He didn't make those people treat you that awful way. He never would have treated you that way. Remember in the Bible the story of that lady caught an adultery? Did he yell at her or beat her or put her down? No. He chased away the people that were trying to Stone her to death and he told them hey you, all of you, come step forward and cast the first stone, those that have no sin, and they couldn't do it because they knew they were just as big a sinner as anybody else. And one by one they threw down their stones to the ground and walked away cuz they knew they were guilty and no better than that woman. And the Lord turned to her and said woman, where are your accusers now? And I'm sure he hugged her and he said go, and sin no more. He didn't want her to live that kind of life and be hurt all time. He wanted her to have happiness and freedom and love in her life that wouldn't hurt her.
@LadyGrace that's the saddest thing in the whole world right there, that you had no voice! That really makes me angry because I know what's that's like. I never had a voice either but that was pertaining to growing up in my own house. My parents were super strict, so I know what it feels like to be lonely and feel unloved. I really really hate that you had no voice. But now you do. You can take up for that little girl inside of you that needs love. You can make it happen for her sake and never allow her to be hurt again. Love is not control. Narcissists don't know how to love people because love to them equals nothing but control. We weren't meant to live this way. We love ourselves enough not to allow people to hurt us. Least I hope you won't. 🌹
