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DocSavage · M
Been reading “The Count of Monte Cristo” lately ?
Nomad7 · 26-30, M
@DocSavage Interesting. I wanted to read the book after I watched the movie a few years ago, but I never got around to it.
This post is from personal experience. I dated a woman whose mind games made me miserable. I went through hell for 6 months. She was unstable, manipulative and even more egotistical than I am. She refused to account for or care about how she made others feel. And I was in denial for the longest time that someone I liked and truly cared for could do this.
She said things that made me feel worthless, simply because I told her that we were done. Initially, I refused to say anything bad to her, but I had to show her her place. And I tried spirituality, truly letting go, etc, but nothing worked.
I sent her a long message which completely tore her apart. I said things which I wouldn’t to my worst enemy. But she had it coming. And knowing that she had to retreat from that and finally blocked me, gives me a tremendous sense of peace and satisfaction that nothing else I tried could provide.
It was my Hiroshima to her Pearl Harbour
This post is from personal experience. I dated a woman whose mind games made me miserable. I went through hell for 6 months. She was unstable, manipulative and even more egotistical than I am. She refused to account for or care about how she made others feel. And I was in denial for the longest time that someone I liked and truly cared for could do this.
She said things that made me feel worthless, simply because I told her that we were done. Initially, I refused to say anything bad to her, but I had to show her her place. And I tried spirituality, truly letting go, etc, but nothing worked.
I sent her a long message which completely tore her apart. I said things which I wouldn’t to my worst enemy. But she had it coming. And knowing that she had to retreat from that and finally blocked me, gives me a tremendous sense of peace and satisfaction that nothing else I tried could provide.
It was my Hiroshima to her Pearl Harbour