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Adopt an Angel

My church sponsors Adopt an Angel with the Salvation Army. I chose a 7 yr old little girl. She was hispanic and wanted an Amazon Fire Tablet. yep. a Tablet. not just any but a Fire tablet. i put that one back.

I chose another little girl, again hispanic. Her family can't afford christmas so they are asking us to supply it. I had to pray hard about this one. I don't want to hear that the little girl can't help that her family is poor.

I will NOT be taking another angel off the tree. I will be donating to the little girl on the next street whose mother is a heroin addict and her grandmother is supporting both grandkids.
Whodunnit · M
I've never really trusted organised 'charities'. Too much of the money never seems to get to where it should.
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@Whodunnit I knew a woman who used to be a bell-ringer to collect donations. The collection boxes are locked so only the head person at each Salvation Army can open them up and count the money. The woman I knew would keep a good track of the donations in her mind and they never added up after it was collected and counted. She figured it was getting skimmed off the top by the people who were counting the money. I’d never give them a dime due to that.
akindheart · 61-69, F
@whowasthatmaskedman and who are you speaking of
whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M
@akindheart I suppose it varies from country to country. But here the RSPCA is fashion for professional fund raisers..😷
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
Several years ago I signed my kids and I up to deliver xmas gifts to “needy children in my city”; gifts purchased by a charitable organization which I think was United Way

We drove all over my city to deliver gifts to these kids -at least 20 homes. 19 of these homes were semi-mansions in the best neighbourhoods, all living better than my kids and I

I finished the donations and complained to the lady who organized the whole thing and told her I would never again volunteer for this scam. She said she had received the same complaint from other volunteers
@Jenny1234 brutal, don’t these people have a conscience
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
@Ghostinthemachine they really don’t!!
@Jenny1234 it’s the “haves” wanting even more, at the expense of the “have nots”…and at a Christmas time too.
Funtoy4u · 61-69, M
Several years ago we did one where we provided the Christmas dinner for a family that "couldn't afford it". When we delivered it, we saw the teenage kids sitting on the back of the couch wearing $100+ tennis shoes and playing the latest gaming system on a widescreen TV. This was way before the tv's were affordable. The mother didn't even say thank you. It was the last year we volunteered. The only one we will do now is Clarke Howard's "Clarke's Kids" where they provide a toy for every child in the foster child system in Georgia. We know those gifts are appreciated.
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@Funtoy4u One year we did it at work. Our entire department sponsored a family with several children, the mother was a widow. She signed up for the Christmas store and my manager decided to sponsor this family for Christmas. He asked her to give a list of things that the family needed. She gave a list for each child and herself including sizes of clothing, and other wants. By the time our department was finished with bringing items in they filled the back of a pickup truck. The manager also offered her a job when he and some others took the gifts over to the family. She worked a week and quit saying it was not what she had in mind. I’m pretty sure they were getting enough in SSI benefits for the children that she didn’t have to work and probably didn’t need to apply to the Christmas store for free things either, but she did. The next year the workers asked if the department could sponsor one of their own…a woman who also had several children and was battling cancer and that’s what the department did.
akindheart · 61-69, F
@Funtoy4u thats what i am talking about
1Dogma · F
I donate things directly. I would gather all our clothes and shoes that we outgrown but still decent and give to the garbage collector. On Christmas I would put 200 in an envelope to give it personally too for being grateful on taking out our garbage the whole year.

it's hard to trust organized charities.
akindheart · 61-69, F
@1Dogma who gets your stuff? the garbage or the collector?
1Dogma · F
@akindheart of course the collector. I'd hand a separate garbage bag to him saying, "these are shoes & clothe then he'd put it at the driver's seat."
Crazywaterspring · 61-69, M
Consider the grandmother. She could probably use a few dollars for groceries or to keep the lights on. Helping someone directly is the best way.
akindheart · 61-69, F
@Crazywaterspring exactly. I mow her grass and clean her yard and gutters. Her son is aitustic, her daughter is a heroin addict and shes raising her 2 grandchildren
MarineBob · 56-60, M
Does their executive staff sponsor a kid with their personal checkbooks?
akindheart · 61-69, F
@MarineBob something i shoukd look into. My church is just trying to help
whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M
Think globally.. Act Locally.. Sounds like you got it right.😷
Iwillwait · M
You're awesome.
exexec · 61-69, C
Our church has a similar Giving Tree. We get children's names from their school and other sources. We always choose a child, and the class I teach adopts one with more expensive needs. I'm sure all the programs still miss a lot of kids.
1pebbles · 56-60, F
They will appreciate the kindness… it is more blessed to give than to receive… they will remember your kindness…
sciguy18 · M
They have a similar thing here, but it is run by the local rescue mission.
TexChik · F
Do what your heart tells you
akindheart · 61-69, F
@TexChik when i pulled the angel i didn't look at the name i just bought the gifts. I wish i had chosen an american
SW-User
I'm not sure what being Hispanic has to do with anything.

When my children were very young, a group chose to adopt our family. I didn't ask for anything for myself, but they said Christmas was for all and made sure I got something too.
As for the fire tablet, depending on the child, there are refurbished ones going pretty cheap. My children never complained about used as long as it worked.
I'm not following on the "poor" family either. Isn't that why people adopt children for Christmas giving...because they can't afford a lot?

And, if the little girl on the next street needs someone to help her, then maybe just keep her in mind for the next round too.

As for Salvation Army, a lot has changed over the years and I don't like what I know about how it works anymore.
akindheart · 61-69, F
@SW-User i feel my taxes have gone to support illegals and for them to ask for a fire tablet at 7. That is not a priority. I would rather help.citizens
SW-User
@akindheart Okay...it's your money to do what and how you wish.

It just feels like another form of prejudice, especially to a child.
akindheart · 61-69, F
@SW-User call it what you will but i help the illegals enough. I would rather help an american
strongbow · 46-50, M
I trust the salvation army as far as i can throw them, they have been behind trafficking child abuse for decades now
akindheart · 61-69, F
@pianoplayingsteve i dont get what that has to do with my post

 
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