Have you ever met someone you know has had work done, yet they refuse to tell you where they got it done?

So frustrating. Why do women do this? Some women are super open about it as I would be. "I love my doctor! I love the work s/he has done!' Other women will take it to their grave! "I've never had any work done."

Are you sure?

I don't want to be rude, but... .. .

It's obvious to anyone with intelligence.

"Nope. Never."

I think it looks great! Who did your fillers???"

Urgh. Why do women do this to each other???

For the RECORD, if I find a doctor who does gorgeous work, I'm telling anyone who asks. Yes! These are FILLERS and BOTOX as you already know. This is my doctor's name..."

CestManan · 46-50, F

People do not often like to be asked about their medical history. Some things are definitely more private than others.

Even though the world feels the need to pry about a certain condition right now but asking random people is still inappropriate.

I imagine the reason one would want to keep their plastic surgery private is because once it is discovered that they had purely elective work done, suddenly their beauty seems less authentic.

No such thing as a "little" cheating.

perceptivei · 36-40, F

@CestManan Yeah. I get that. I just don't think I'm random. You know? I've been committed to her for at least 10+ years. She's the only one I'll let touch me... like that. Lol. Sorry. Couldn't resist. I only trust her work and cannot separate easily! So, I don't know... I just hoped she'd tell me.

It's ok. I'll look at other women closer, and rely on my open women. It's the only way.

I understand she needs to protect her livelihood. It's ok.

TexChik · F

I have never wanted to pry . For them , that work was important to them , and it’s none of my business. Sure I can tell , but just like pink or purple hair it makes them feel good about themselves. As their friend that would be the last thing I would want to destroy, their self image .