Some of my sister’s female friends who have also had kids were putting themselves down with me

Many of whom she went to high school with and have remained friend since. But they’ve have kids since then and have put on weight. Today, a lot of them met my baby for the first time and were complimenting me on my figure. I’m sporting a bikini today and am still as skinny as I was before I had my baby. I posted that as a bit of a beat before, but I now their remarks are making me feel bad. Their compliments were nice and all, but I hated it when they expressed shock at my not gaining weight, then proceeded to point to themselves like “look at me”

I have always been skinny and I have always hated others feeling self-conscious about their weight around me just because I am skinny. I don’t judge anyone based on their weight, and maybe they’re not assuming that I do. All the same, I just hate it when people compare their bodies to mine, as if mine is a lot better, or just to put themselves down. I don’t want anyone to feel self-conscious around me. It makes me feel bad, like I’m some superior image to them or some BS, when that’s even what I’m trying to be. Ever.

I’ve tried talking some of them down from it. Don’t know how successful I was. I only hope they know that it’s not me who’s judging them. But what they should be worried less about is society judging them.