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PhoenixPhail · M
I know there a lot of emphasis put on appearances. But having self-love will help you so much regarding what others think about how you look, and anything else they might think about you.
What other people think, is their business, not yours.
And I truly understand about needing to look a certain way for other people. I've been dealing with that all my life - showing them how smart I am, how intelligent, how creative, how well I can satisfy them and accommodate all their wants and needs. And all for the sake of survival. But, things are getting better. Mostly, because my giving up my life for others was killing me.
What other people think, is their business, not yours.
And I truly understand about needing to look a certain way for other people. I've been dealing with that all my life - showing them how smart I am, how intelligent, how creative, how well I can satisfy them and accommodate all their wants and needs. And all for the sake of survival. But, things are getting better. Mostly, because my giving up my life for others was killing me.