I feel life has passed me by.

I sit here, still living with my mum, in my 40s and I feel I have missed out on so much. I never finished school, never went to collage.l have only had a few jobs and currently I’m unemployed.
Its been years since I dated, I’m single and lonely.
I see the reason being my weight, I was a fat child and now I’m a very fat adult.
It seems so unfair that I have had to struggle all my life where others seem to breeze through.
I know I should diet and exercise, I have tried but the weight has always come back on.
I would just like to be given a chance at some of the things I have missed.

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Lostpoet · M

You should go back to school, study, get on a diet and exercise program. I'm single I wouldn't have a problem dating you.

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Fatalice · 41-45, F

Not really possible, due to my size but I am seeing someone now@Lostpoet

invisiblewoman · 36-40, F

@Lostpoet go for it @SmileOnYourBrother lol sounds like a match made in heaven.

invisiblewoman · 36-40, F

@Fatalice well you just got lucky

Fatalice · 41-45, F

I did he’s very caring and likes my size he’s also a feeder so spoils me rottern@invisiblewoman

invisiblewoman · 36-40, F

@Fatalice thats good cuz @Lostpoet wouldnt spoil you rotten. Thats for damn sure. You would be lucky if he even spoke to you most days.

Fatalice · 41-45, F

Plus I doubt I’m his type@invisiblewoman

Fatalice · 41-45, F

Do you two have history

invisiblewoman · 36-40, F

@Fatalice none of us are. No history between us.

Fatalice · 41-45, F

Well we’re at opposite ends of the weight spectrum@invisiblewoman

invisiblewoman · 36-40, F

@Fatalice yeah i only weigh 122 but i work at a gym.

Fatalice · 41-45, F

I’m house bound and am just over 700 lbs@invisiblewoman

invisiblewoman · 36-40, F

@Fatalice yeah i would imagine you are if you weigh that much. But that is extremely unhealthy and hard on every organ and part of your body. You really should try to get on a diet and program to lose weight.

Fatalice · 41-45, F

Can I message you difficult to discuss it in this place@invisiblewoman

invisiblewoman · 36-40, F

@Fatalice sure you can