I feel life has passed me by.

I sit here, still living with my mum, in my 40s and I feel I have missed out on so much. I never finished school, never went to collage.l have only had a few jobs and currently I’m unemployed.
Its been years since I dated, I’m single and lonely.
I see the reason being my weight, I was a fat child and now I’m a very fat adult.
It seems so unfair that I have had to struggle all my life where others seem to breeze through.
I know I should diet and exercise, I have tried but the weight has always come back on.
I would just like to be given a chance at some of the things I have missed.

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Strict4u · 56-60, M

@Fatalice you will have some guys telling you that but I’m not one of those guys I say just be the happiest person you can be because life is too short

Fatalice · 41-45, F

My size is what people see first ,it’s always that i should diet@Strict4u

Fatalice · 41-45, F

I do get it I am very large.

Strict4u · 56-60, M

@Fatalice it’s okay not everyone is skinny I’m a big guy but I’m very happy with myself

Fatalice · 41-45, F

I don’t think I was ever skinny @Strict4u

Strict4u · 56-60, M

@Fatalice me either but I never let it stop me from going out and having fun

Fatalice · 41-45, F

My size does just that.@Strict4u

Strict4u · 56-60, M

@Fatalice your mind says that and keeps you from going out and trying to have fun you really should try going out and having fun

Fatalice · 41-45, F

I’d love but it’s both physical and mental.@Strict4u

Strict4u · 56-60, M

@Fatalice I hope you try to go do more stuff and try having fun