Standing on my groin, need help.

I have this fetish of wanting light, petite women with nice feet to stand on my groin area. Im married, and my wife doesn't enjoy doing this, but she is also a bit heavy. I sometimes talk to other women about this and say i had a dream about them (even though it's not true), just to get a reaction and see what they say. I got caught out and now I'm in the dog house, which i get. But how can i get over this? I still want it so bad, but I've not done this for 13 years with anybody, and the fetish is coming back harder than ever. I need help.

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spice1 · M

We all have different fetishes some more extreme than others, I always had a fetish for high heels and wanted a girl to walk on my back wearing stiletto heels, it was a very strong desire til I finally had it done, after that I was ok until the desire came back strong, my advice is to experience it again but just be careful who you do it with, most of our fetishes never go away.

Alakazam · 41-45, M

@spice1 see.. this is what i want to try, the wife has said if I do something and she doesnt know about it, she's cool. Shes even offered to book 2 women for me to do this. Ive said no to that, i said her and someone would be cool.

But the worst part is (this is about to sound like Jerry Springer), i had a moment of weakness and messaged her sister about this fetish. We had a chat and a laugh about it, i sent her what it was about (some videos etc (fully clothed people etc) about 4 years ago when she was living in a seperate country. And she just recently told my wife about it knowing that we're going through a tough time, even did a counselling session with us. She told my wife she felt guilty about it and had to tell her. I dont get why after 4 years whilst we're going through a difficult time she told her.

That aside.. finding the right person to do something is difficult.

spice1 · M

@Alakazam don't know why she would do that other than to add more reason for you and your wife to split up permanently , if your wife was willing to set you up with 2 girls why didn't you take it? Is it also a fetish that your wife has to be involved?

Alakazam · 41-45, M

@spice1 wife doesnt have to be involved, but i want her to feel wanted. But i saidno, because i keep thinking she is testing me.

The thing with the sister annoys me, i honestly think he wants us to break, so we sell our house and she can offer to buy it with her husband. I think to myself i should tell her husband the conversation i hd with her but then i realise thats petty.