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I Am Curious About Open Relationship

Will someone please explain to me the concept of an open relationship. Like how do you justify it? How can you say you love someone when you're off sleeping around with other people? I mean relationships have always been pretty cut and dry for me. Either sh*t is f*cked up or its all good in the hood. There is no in between
First lesson learned on ep... Don't ask questions you might not want the answer to!
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
@nodaveparty what? Lol you have me confused. I simply told you why people have open relationships and told you that I wont hate on people having them (because it's none of my business or yours). I would never have one for myself. Don't make assumptions like that, doesnt make you look bright
Oh my God! You have no idea how bad they are. Then there are guys who say weird crap like i love your hair. It will be so sexy in the floor in piles! Like you can't see my hair! And I'll stab you with your imaginary scissors if you even think of cutting my hair.
You can't even make this stuff up. One guy asked what I'd do if i was made of chocolate. Like how have these people lived their entire life without sticking their fingers in a socket?
That sucks! It totally should! I mean at least remove warning labels. Like really is it such a shock that people shouldn't drink draino?
MrSmooTh · 31-35, M
Or the little packets when you order a stereo system that say do not eat. Like were people really expecting something to eat inside their speakers?
Itsprincess, the weirdest I've ever had was the guy who wanted me to cut off his ummm manhood... Like sorry that sounds messy... Not interested.
MaliaAgain · 36-40, F
For me its like asking me why i like red velvet cake when you find it disgusting. I just like it an no explanation i give will satisfy you. Now, i am not in an open relationship per se, but i dont have a problem with my husband seeing other women. I know i am not perfect and will never satisfy him 100% because that is just fantasy. When my depression gets bad and i dont want sex for months at a time, I know he still needs release and would much rather he has someone else for sex rather than breaking up our marriage.
MrSmooTh · 31-35, M
I've learned that there's a lot I don't wanna know. Like wtf are these breeder folks?
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
Where both partners agree to have sexual relations with others. Could be for when both feel like they are very sexual people and would get bored easily of just fucking each other. They might be interested in a variety of roleplay that their partner isn't into. One might not want to have sex so gives the other permission to get it from somewhere else
MaliaAgain · 36-40, F
Love and sex are not the same thing
MrSmooTh · 31-35, M
Yeah its probably one of those things I should have never asked about. Just something to be on the lookout for when getting into a relationship.. *takes notes* Do her opinions on sex match my own?
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
@nodaveparty it is. But it's much better than cheating. So I will never be against a couple having an open relationship. 17 is too young to know about sex? Lmao you do realise most people are aware that it exists at 13
MrSmooTh · 31-35, M
Ok I somewhat agree that love and sex are not the same thing. However that's what one night stands are for.. Not doing that inside a relationship. For fucks sake..dont be in a relationship. That is cheating
MrSmooTh · 31-35, M
That's like a sex addict though.. Idk I guess to each their own. But I'm not touching anything like that with a 30 foot pole. And you're too young to know about that. Stay in school
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
Because the person you're with is long term, and they're still the person you like emotionally. Whilst the others they sleep with are probably one offs or short term
MrSmooTh · 31-35, M
Nahh its cool to know about sex, but it's not so great forming opinions about it that are only going to leave you high and dry later in life
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
@callmehopelessnotromantic lol I know right! How hairdressing can be associated with sex is beyond me. And I had a guy with a shoe fetish hit me up. Like what tf?
Haha! Don't tell anybody... But i removed that tag on my mattress that says so not remove under penalty of law! I'm a badass!
MrSmooTh · 31-35, M
@itsprincess I'm sorry but if you're not enough for a guy then you should tell him to take a hike. Don't sell yourself short
MrSmooTh · 31-35, M
Well good. I really don't care how I look though to be honest. I wouldn't lose any sleep if this entire site thought I was a bumbling idiot
MrSmooTh · 31-35, M
And the old creepy men who send me pictures of their wife's boobs asking do I wanna play.. Or if I got any good p*ssy recently.
Nooo I don't like sharing. And if a guy didn't have a problem with me being with another guy, that would be a huge problem.
Knowing their wives would stab them in their sleep if they knew they were showing them to people online.
MrSmooTh · 31-35, M
Oh I understand that part. I just don't get how it qualifies as a relationship.
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
@callmehopelessnotromantic haha that's so weird
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
@nodaveparty sorry since when did I tell you my opinion on it?
MrSmooTh · 31-35, M
Sometimes natural selection doesn't work
MaliaAgain · 36-40, F
Some wives are pervs too. Not me though im a lady
Shhh don't try to lessen my badassery!
I know 😭 I can't compare and I've accepted it.
MrSmooTh · 31-35, M
My badassery is better though
Some people are just weird I guess
MrSmooTh · 31-35, M
That's for the store

 
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