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polyandryM64
In the 90's, we explained my joining a couple as the second hubby as "a roommate who is going through a divorce and needs a room". That explained things to neighbors and extended family for a couple of years. We DID explain the real situation to close family members and close friends. Kids liked the idea (10,16,17,20).