I Am Polyamorous

Well in practice I'm not, but I am very interested. I am loving reading peoples experiences.

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happyjack501

i wouldn't say we are in a polyamorous relationship ,, but we do occasionally experiment with other partners ,, to be really poly you have to love more than one person we just enjoy sex occasionally with other ppl 3some always have to include our partner ,, love each other to much to let that part go

GypsyMiss · 41-45, F

Would you define you and your partner as 'swingers'?

happyjack501

that doesnt sit either ,,, because we have only been with friends ,, i define swingers as ppl that have multiple partners like swinging clubs and parties where ppl just fu,,,ck ..we dont do that

GypsyMiss · 41-45, F

Ok.

happyjack501

i know a couple of swingers ,,, and what they describe is pretty ,,, mmm not for me

GypsyMiss · 41-45, F

😊

happyjack501

where do you sit with this type of relationship .. have you or would you ever consider or try it with your current partner

GypsyMiss · 41-45, F

I used to watch the show 'Big Love' and I was fascinated by the dynamic of the family especially during a time of my life when I was living in a foreign country without my 'village' and a husband who travelled for business frequently, the idea of 'sister wives' would have been very welcomed - so from that point of view, I can definitely see the advantages of a polygamous relationship. I think polyandry is far more complicated.

But in answer to your question...no, I am without a doubt not emotionally built for any poly-type relationships.

happyjack501

it is weird i think i have always been that way inclined but i was in a monogamous relationship for almost 30 yrs ,, but i feel more emotionally alive and connected where i am at the moment with our semi poly totally devoted to each other relationship ... not sure that makes sense , but more than happy to explore it im not sure i understand it or how it works