I have literally one thing to say to the Lesbians at this point.
It is not OK to expect me to be able to turn off my heart because of the fact that you're a homosexual.
I don't chose who I am attracted to any more than you chose to be a lesbian.
I remember reading a heartless bitches article once about how Attraction wasn't a choice about so called nice guys.
so I'm left with this in response: Attraction isn't a choice for any human. [u]that includes men.[/u]
So to those who ghost if I ever own up to the crush because Gosh I'm a lesbian and that made me uncomfortable
I didn't choose this and emotional suppression is bad for your health so It was down to confessing it or Take a risk of Early cancer.
I don't mean to cause any of you discomfort I'm not laboring under any delusions I understand that you are what you are I can't change you you'll never want me back it's Cool I get it we're only ever going to at most be friends.
But don't ask me to never fall for you because I can't make that promise.
it doesn't matter if it's unrequited, I'm not mad.
I accept the futility of such emotions,'
I however cannot turn them off just because they'll go nowhere.
so my anger on this one stems from the reality that I accept lesbians are lesbian and nothing I could ever do will make them otherwise but I'm being pressured if I everrrr feel attracted to one to keep it to myself by the silent treatment delivered to me b the ones I had the audacity to confess ot my wil crush to .
To which makes me want to give them the bird because Excuse me? Fuck you for expecting me to be able to choose not to like you.
And more to the point if I did jjust because you're a lesbian? fuck you for expecting me to keep it to myself, that shit isn't good for your health.
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3939772/
and your comfort should never be more important than the mortality risk. COPE With with the discomfort. You can, that's not too much to ask for. What is is expecting me to stay silent.
if it makes you so damn uncomfortable to know a man fancies you even though you don't like men that way... you can deal with that. I however, will Die earlier, if I keep that sort of shit to myself.
So if that's your expectation, your expectations need an attitude adjustment.
just because I tell you I like you either doesn't mean I Expect ANYTHING from you.
I'm just trying to get it off my chest.
Conclusions
Emotion suppression may convey risk for earlier death, including death from cancer. Further work is needed to better understand the biopsychosocial mechanisms for this risk, as well as the nature of associations between suppression and different forms of mortality.
I don't chose who I am attracted to any more than you chose to be a lesbian.
I remember reading a heartless bitches article once about how Attraction wasn't a choice about so called nice guys.
so I'm left with this in response: Attraction isn't a choice for any human. [u]that includes men.[/u]
So to those who ghost if I ever own up to the crush because Gosh I'm a lesbian and that made me uncomfortable
I didn't choose this and emotional suppression is bad for your health so It was down to confessing it or Take a risk of Early cancer.
I don't mean to cause any of you discomfort I'm not laboring under any delusions I understand that you are what you are I can't change you you'll never want me back it's Cool I get it we're only ever going to at most be friends.
But don't ask me to never fall for you because I can't make that promise.
it doesn't matter if it's unrequited, I'm not mad.
I accept the futility of such emotions,'
I however cannot turn them off just because they'll go nowhere.
so my anger on this one stems from the reality that I accept lesbians are lesbian and nothing I could ever do will make them otherwise but I'm being pressured if I everrrr feel attracted to one to keep it to myself by the silent treatment delivered to me b the ones I had the audacity to confess ot my wil crush to .
To which makes me want to give them the bird because Excuse me? Fuck you for expecting me to be able to choose not to like you.
And more to the point if I did jjust because you're a lesbian? fuck you for expecting me to keep it to myself, that shit isn't good for your health.
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3939772/
and your comfort should never be more important than the mortality risk. COPE With with the discomfort. You can, that's not too much to ask for. What is is expecting me to stay silent.
if it makes you so damn uncomfortable to know a man fancies you even though you don't like men that way... you can deal with that. I however, will Die earlier, if I keep that sort of shit to myself.
So if that's your expectation, your expectations need an attitude adjustment.
just because I tell you I like you either doesn't mean I Expect ANYTHING from you.
I'm just trying to get it off my chest.
Conclusions
Emotion suppression may convey risk for earlier death, including death from cancer. Further work is needed to better understand the biopsychosocial mechanisms for this risk, as well as the nature of associations between suppression and different forms of mortality.
